Hey guys im new in this forum , so i got question i hope youll help me.
Im like 6-7 month in the pickup.
I can talk to girls but noow i just realized that i dont know what to talk about.
Some people told me to listen to her.
I tried but its didnt work.
I need some guide or help.
So what to talk with her?
I mean That we can talk like 10-20Minuts
and not 5 min
How its work?
So in total i dont know what to talk with girls.
ll be happy for help.
Thanks

This seems like a basic question that everyone asks but it really can be difficult for guys starting out. If you are naturally enthusiastic about things (movies, physical activities, food, even video games) it can give you a lot of material to work with. This post is a great starting point:


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a good way to keep the conversation flowing is to go into detail about what she is saying, for example what do you do , blah blah im a art teacher, ahh so tell me about what sort of art you do? why does it make you happy?

Girls love to talk about themselves to get them doing that, and seem interested and listen to what they are saying. Another example is remember things she says when she is talking such as blah blah i like art i did it at uni..blah blah..... and then you can say so where did u go to uni? And relate to what she went through.

Always try and be relaxed,confident,smile and talk slowly. Make her feel comfortable and look into her eyes

Wow guys thanks!
Ill try it
If i want to talk about my self
what is the best subjects to talk about?

I'm new but its my opinion that you talk about whatever is interesting. Mention a cool life experience or something your passionate in. Of course you can't go off in a tangent and randomly mention it, but try to find a link between what she said and how it relates to YOU.

You don't want to talk for more than 5 minutes! There are too many other girls to meet. It will not help your chances either. Close after 5 minutes. I usually close after 2 or 3 minutes. If attraction isn't present after 5 minutes.. it wont be after 30 minutes or an hour either. Its a waste of time.

As far as conversations go... ask questions. I usually open with questions and make some small talk with flirting. If she responds well.. I close.

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Talk about her.

hey.
I always talk bullshit and it works!
Once I approached two girls without any plans. I just told me mates to watch and I let my subconscious do the work. here is what i remember.
me: Hey can I give you some of my phylosophy?
Them (in a reluctant voice): sure
Me: Dancing!!! Is an art of life! our mood inflige our destiny and moves. The beauty of the moon will help making the melody i walk into life. Without dancing there is no beating, in fact beating my heart os my only music.
I done that making big moves like a herald i suppose. I had no idea what i said but the girls loved it.
one of them told me. "You are so sweet!"
I was like what did I say again?
Tbh i dont really know what i say and it was disorganised. but they loved it.
Conclusion
Bullshit language= seductive

Talk about her.

If she says we went to wendys and baught ice cream, you can say oh yeah what flavour ice cream do you like? then say your favourite is the best..

or if you run out of shit to talk about, comment on her appearance, chuck in a compliment or a neg.. Ask her about what she does.

Or you can say something like.. "I like to hang out with people who can party and have a good time, my friend alice and i always meet new people when we are out one time we even went back and had drinks at some randoms place. Do you like to go out and meet randoms?"
This way shes more likely to be open minded to go home with u ^
if thats what u want.

Fuck dude theres alot for you to talk about aye.. If you cant make convo u probs dont have much chemisty with that chick. It happens