Hey guys, im rather new to the community and have just started reading the book "The game" by neil strauss(cant spell his name ).

INFO:

Location - Close friends house
Date - New years eve
Event - New years eve house party
My Dress sense - Leather jacket with plain white T-shirt underneath, blue jeans and a blue + black rough scarf (looks good with the leather jacket), Diamond stud earring in my left ear (not the gay ear, i hope..).

Okay, let me start from the top. I have a very close friend in south africa who is visiting England (where I am) to stay with one of my friends, the friend from south africa, lets call him Matt. Matt is a natural PUA who was basically born with his abilities, he constantly has girls all over him with little effort all the time. He's been "training" me on how to pickup girls quite easily, but when it comes to being confident I lack, big time.

Matt got to know these girls in Oxford and they are, as usual, all over him.. at the moment there are these two cousins that he has invited to the house party and the girls want to bring some friends over to "have a good time", if you get the jist. Matt has gone over to Oxford today infact to catch up with them and give in some "good word" about me to the girls and her friends..

So there is this new years eve house party coming up and I have been doing all the research + learning PUA techniques, including the book "the Game" and youtubing the "Mystery Method" and trying to practice them by myself. Ive taken some trips to my local city centre and even tried approaching girls, which have all failed as the AA was too much.. but I plan on trying again.

So here is what is most likely to happen at the party and I want to ask what techniques I should use?
There will most likely be 2 different groups, each one of probably 3 - 5 sets. The party is male dominant but there is probably going to be 6 - 8 girls there, which are roughly HB6 - 8, nothing special. My aim for the night is to atleast K-close/Number-close but if there is booze included then I hope for a F-Close, if im lucky(VERY, lol).
So what do you think would be the best openers? How do I keep them engaged? How do I attract them? How easy is it to notice IOI's? etc.

Your help is much appreciated

- Tubbly

firstly good boy for trying to over come your AA. its something we all have to over come and still hits even the best , so keep trying and dont get disheartend.

the good news, house partys are very easy to game ( its where i used to run most of mine ). with house partys most people know each other so its just all about being sociable and social proofing.

if you see matt talking to a set of 4 girls dont hesitate in walkign up to them.

its easy - stand up straight, strong eye contact walk up to him and pat him on the back. if hes any sort of a friend hell help you engage with the rest of the group.

if he doesnt dont worry just speak to one of the girls that arent currently involved in the conversation. you will eventually just become one of the group and the rest of the women will probably open you. ask them how they know each other, what they study, just small talk ( not gona lie this isnt the greatest part of my game - i hate small talk lol). whilst doing this your focus should be on kino escaltion and sexual tension. lingered handshake, teasing etc

if theres a " dance floor " or a group of people dancing take her hand and just say " i wat to dance " and lead her . NEVER ASK FOR HER APPROVAL , you are the prize if she turns you down its her loss. once on the dance floor kino should escalate naturally , try twirling her and placing her hands behif your neck.

if there isnt a dance floor or a dance area lol then just say " come keep me company whilst i get a drink". once shes isolated you can then proceed to attempt a k close - this assuming that youve picked up some ioi's lol dont just jump i trying to lick her face, women dont enjoy that haha .

hope ive helped mate , this may seem a bit jumbled ive just bee typing as it come to me.

good luck any man and be lucky

also what really helped me out when i first started and continues to aid me is " david deangelos - double your datig ". theres a lot of focus on inner game which is crucial.

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Step 2: get a fucking job

Step 3: pick up girls

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step 5: realize pick up is shit

Step 6: do your own thing and pick up more girls

step 7: rinse and repeat

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