How to build social comfort and social proof routine



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PostPosted: Mon Dec 27, 2010 9:57 pm 
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First off if you always end up talking to only the people you came with to the club or have no clue what to say to people when out then this will help to break that mould, branch out and meet new people, AFC Adam would call this building comfort and social proof.

The best places to get easy conversation is at the bar when you're getting a drink, cueing up outside, at the cloakroom or out in the smoking area. As you go along you will figure out good places to talk to people and when, you can simply just lead in with an observational SPAM or something E.g. "argh this bars packed" if someone responds go from there or you can even cold approach if you're feeling brave.

Only talk for a short time, just enough to get introductions or find out where they live, if you see them later be sure to say "hello" as you walk past or if you see them at the bar you can even buy them a drink if you want.

Ok this is the routine below, I suggest you word it in your own slang.
remember to have a good smile and shake their hands

Hey, whats up, where you guys all from (example continuation) do you know...blah blah (place e.g. a club or person)

I never got your name, whats your name... I'm... who you out with tonight/are these your friends... hey whats your names...I'm...so how do you know (insert name of first person) and so on and so on

don't say this routine word for word improvise and put your own spin on it but keep the subjects the same

(you can add in some additional situational/observational stuff about the club or something or with guys you can briefly talk about the chicks in the club, do not! go into any kind of deep conversation nobody wants that! keep it light, short (1 or 2 minutes) and be friendly)

Keep going over the routine till it's totally memorised, write it down over and over if you wish but make sure this is totally internalised so you don't have to think about it at all when infield, you can even act it out when you're by yourself in your room.

You should be able to fully learn this in a very short period of time and use it right away!

the more people you are seen with the more people will think you are liked and the easier it will be to open people in the area you are working

Any questions just ask


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PostPosted: Tue Dec 28, 2010 4:39 am 
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great advice. Its such an amazingly helpful thing to just be good at talking to people and being friendly. Whenever someone isn't friendly I just think that person a) is shallow and doesn't view me as socially valuable to them. b ) is bored by meeting new people because they think they have the world figured out (no one ever does). c) they are so aggressive that they just want to get drunk and start a fight with someone. d) is tired, with a girlfriend thinking about going home to fuck, etc and just doesn't want to be bothered. e) you get the idea.

I just keep in mind that almost everyone wants to be liked, to feel wanted, to be IN. And I recognize that in myself. So I just try to make everyone feel how I would want to feel. Guys and girls. I was at this college party full of so many hot girls. I was talking to EVERYONE the HB10s, the geeks, you name it. And I enjoyed all of it. The geekiest guy at the party actually ended up being very interesting and we have so so much in common he's a pretty rare guy actually. But the girls picked up on my vibe. Who is this guy who seems to know everyone? All that mattered to me is that everyone was having as good a time as possible and I think the girls realized that I am good at making them feel good in bed too perhaps... I didn't get laid that night, but I generated a lot of buzz and will be more than welcome when they have a party there again soon....

A major major bonus of sarging everyone is that each person is a potential source of information. I try to get guys numbers even more than women's. Because its a lot easier. And guys will invite you to parties. I find that I usually have an easy time finding out about parties now. And I am noticing that I am just as good at winning guys over as girls. I started noticing that guys are attracted to me as the AMOG sometimes (platonically). And of course girls pick up on that.

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PostPosted: Wed Dec 29, 2010 12:16 am 
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good thing about this too, is if they know people you know you add them on facebook next time you see them again ask them about weekend plans, or if you see them out just run the "who you out with tonight" stuff again and talk about how their night turned the last time you saw them.

If theres anyone new with the person you met the last time you were out, run the parts of the routine that fits again "how do you know... whats your name... blah blah" then add them on facebook and your social grid expands again.

this is the bare beginnings of how to start entourage game.


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