Im wondering what it means when a girl tells u about other guys. This is not necessarily in a club but for girls i know. I generally flirt with most girls I know and see what happens, as a result a lot end up being attracted to me. I am wondering because in the last week this came up several times. girls I know (one might call them "friends" but we dont actually know each other that well) have told me several times about guys they like.

Eg 1. A girl told me "that guy is hot" to someone who walked past, but she also said the same about another girl like 10min later...

Eg 2. A girl I know told me how she really misses one of her guy friends and then elaborated how she really loves him but just doesnt wanna fuck him (hmm..)

Eg 3. I really wanna know this one. A girl I like and Im pretty sure likes me back spend half a night that we spent together noticing celebrities or random guys on TV that she said were "hot".

What does this mean? Is it an indicator of disinterest? Is it some kind of test? (I acted completely unaffected by the comments) Does it mean that I was already friend zoned? Am I just overthinking this?

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I always use this as an opportunity to bring in heavy sexual conversation, and talk about what turns me on. When I do that, it allows her to discuss things as well. When you get a girl talking about what turns her on it gets her turned on. Keep it kino and capitalize on her horniness.

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a) they're trying to make you jealous
b) you're deep, deep in the friend zone.

This kind of chat is very indicative of LBJF.

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This is a good idea.

I would not let it affect your confidence. Even if she does think the guy is "hot", most good looking guys do not have that much game. Also, having females that are friends is still a good idea since you will be meeting some of her female friends.

LOL! 99% of what comes out of a womans mouth you should literally ignore. I find the he's hot line is usually just a test or nothing at all. Seriously ignore it and say nothing. Good chance she just wants to see if you'll react with some kind of jealousy.

I always tell them guys that I think are hot too (no homo) always a good laugh.

I'd say you're over thinking it.

I can't remember where I heard it from either, but you could always say, "Yeah, I'd fuck him." very casually then continue on as if nothing ever happened.

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^^^lol, I like that one, it would probably start an intereting conversation especially if I was clearly flirting with her prior to it

I think when you say that it'd be nice to look her in the eye and say it. I think it'll have that subliminal effect that what you're really saying is "I wanna fuck you"

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