Never ending saga with my MILF gf.

Up & friggin' down like a seasaw.

Anyway,it's 10 pm,Im getting ready to hit the town-solo sarging.

I got into an argument with gf tis evening.

She's jealous that my ex is in town for the holiday.

So she tells me to go be with her 'cause she senses that's what I wanna do.

I dont wanna ge back with ex.

Anyway,my gf will be at the same club later(with her girls).

Because of her bitchy-insecure attitude,and she ditching me for her friends again,Im planning on having a wild night-basically game other chiccs around her.

Some may say that's high-school BS & games but...

She needs to be taught a lesson!

I took Madal's advise from another post,so I told my gf that I want the LTR to work out and I dont want us to break up over BS and I care about her.

I made that clear to her.

But if she keeps putting me on the back burner for her bad-intention friends,Im gonna intentionally pick up chiccs tonigh.

I may eventually get a Long-Island iced tea in my face,but fuck it!!!

It might be too late now for replies on this topic -so tomorrow.

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Just drank a Rockstar-energy drink so Im extra hype.

Im pissed yet composed.

This' my most rebellious,dont-give a shit post ever.

Im not a(perpetual)cheater,but tonight-Im down for making a lay report tomorrow!

I secretly have a meet-up planned with an HB8.8 who's in town for holidays.

My gf has my so pissed tonight,Im down for whatever!

This isnt the behavior expected by a seasoned-social dynamic guy like me.

But I guess we all have our moments of out-of character behavior.

Well,this' my moment to act like a douch-bag & asshole.

Im tired of being a nice-guy and devoted to my gf,while she's more devoted to her slut friends.

So tonight's my night to be get dirty!

I can hear the cooler minds on the forum saying,"Then break up with her".

To hell with breaking up with her!

She can chose to break up with me after seeing me tonguing down some chicc tonight!

I'd feel more satisfied knowing she dumped me for something I did rather than me dumping her to seduce other women.

Right now,I prefer a nasty -break up than an amicable separation.

I want her to feel the pain too,so F being civil!!

I not going crazy guys,just fed up of a 40- year old MILF acting like a stupid -gullible child!

Certain ppl(women)just need to learn the hard way.

Some ppl need to be played in order to get in friggin' line and straighten up.

That's very politically incorrect to say but...

My girl's out-of hand,and I feel the only way to get her bacc in line is to make her jealous tonight in the club by gaming other chiccs.

She can as a result,leave me,or straighten her shit out and value and appreciat me.

If she leaves-fuck it!

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K-Loc

When I first started reading your post here, i thought: The guy is clearly pissed off and has every right to be. There's not much that can be said, this is the way he wants to break up (although i'm completely against the way you choose of doing it).

Then, something by the end caught my attention. You're not doing this to break up with her in any way... You're doing it to get her BACK?

Now I feel that I gotta step in between. K-Loc, I know you're a smart guy and I've seen many of your threads and the advice you give people. You're a good guy.

But man, you're losing it. By purposely cheating on your GF to get her back, you're not winning her over!! These are the possible outcomes:

• She breaks up with you and hates you for the rest of your life
• You actually win her over... short term.
• She takes revenge to make you jealous.

Now let's say you actually manage to win her over... Still, the relationship will NOT work for a long time. The trust between you is broken and she will consistently br jealous on every little thing you do. She won't let you step out of the fucking house, believing you will rape the mailbox. Seriously.

Your relationship will be a ticking bomb. Just a matter of time before it explodes viciously.

Either break up with her or tell her that if she can't learn how to trust you - it's over. You've been giving her a lot, and she gives nothing back. Give her a red flag.

Just my two cents tho...

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Second that.

Just break off. Walk away. Don't come back.



Come on man, you are posting shit on a PUA forum the moment before you are about the going out. You are going out with your friends, and she is too with her friends ??? WTF ???

You should go out TOGETHER !!! Leave the house TOGETHER!!!

This ain't normal at all dude.

You are not enjoying your relationship. It's full of arguments, trust-issues, etc. Get out of it!

@Little Panda-You're very right Little Panda,I was intent on doing that to get her attention back.

Women do it to men all the time-intentionally flirt with other guy just to get their bf's in line.

I can see were cheating may not solve the prob'.

If she'd fount out,things would go down hill.

All 3 of your points makes down-to Earth sense.

Helpful advise LP.

@Apocalyptica-Lol,I have to laugh because I'd wrote on few of your posts admitting that I suck at LTR.

I appreciate your advise.coming from a guy who I'd advised on other posts.

Update:This' how it went last night.

I arrived at club early(11:30),drank a Red Bull,danced solo.

I spotted gf after 1:30 a.m.

It really seems like after the storm,there's always a calm.

I danced with gf for like 3 min.,she seemed reluctant(still upset).

I rolled off,spotted the HB8.8 I was to meet at club.

My gf was in the perifery so I hesitated to go hard core on the HB8.8,so I just whispered in her ears;"If my gf wasnt here,I'd so ravish you like an animal"!

Had an HB10 pull me to her,mistaking me for her guy friend(lol).

Another opportunity to game,but I let civility prevail.

As much as I'd wanted to hurt & embarrass me gf,I just couldnt go there-at least not in her presence.

Long field report short,we danced a bit more(gf & I),went to my place around 4 a.m.and did our thing.

She put up a lot of LMR(being tipsy & vexed at me for talking to few chiccs in the club).

I just called a taxi and she went home 20 min.ago.

Everything seems smooth sailing again-for now.

Guys,I've learned that women would instigate shit just to spice things up.

The soap opera type drama.

Women love drama and a friggin' argument.

I admit,I do get dramatic often as means to spice things up.

Without disagreements,arguments,fights(verbal),jealous plots,make-up sex...What would an LTR be like?

Kinda boring right?

So perhaps my MILF gf knows(from experience)that she must incorporate drama to keep me interested.

Or else,I'd get bored and leave.

Same here,I know without the dramatics,she will get bored and find excitement elswhere.

After our eruption last night,we knew how far to go and when to eventually be civil.

I can honestly say guys,if this LTR was (semi-)perfect,no drama,I would've left this chicc over a year ago from boredom and routine.

And I can say,that if I were the perfect-get along bf,she would've left me long time ago.

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@Hobbit-,I had a minor -melt down last night.

I went wild(mentally)but still kept it civil.

Yes,it's a battle of inner game with me.

But honestly,knowing myself,I lose interest fast when it comes to routine.

Maybe I like drama.

But I know there's no such thing as a perfect relationship.

So Im not gonna advocate bouncing from LTR to LTR in hopes of finding total peace,because it doesnt exist.

I rarely advise guys to just "break up".

Why not work things out and try to find fair compromise,opposed to LTR hopping,to just encounter same probs & drama?

Eventually,you're gonna have to work it out(differences).

So it's ludacrous to say bail and flee at every encounter of problems.

It's impossible to be nonchalant about everything in life;so working out differences is the prime way to go.

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@Hobbit-Lmao@ my LTR having more drama over past months than your 4 years.

It's so true.

As much as Im willing to put up a fight with you Hobbit,you make a great point,eluding to not being able to work things out with some ppl.

Some ppl just dont compromise,so it's impossible to work with them.

I get that point.

I think it was another moderator who made a great point on another post,saying that an LTR isnt PU.

Thats' so correct.

I suck at relationships mainly 'cause I manage it as though it's still game on.

Yes,keep her interested with variety,but at times,I'd go full-blown PU on my gf,not realizing that it's a different ball game now(LTR).

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Well Hobbit,the 'something' Is elusive as hell right now.

I dread being lonely.

Sounds weak & cheesy but it's truth.

I dread the idea of sarging all night,C&B(crash & burn)on many sets,getting rejected,then having no one to lay down with at the end of the day(night).

That's a harsh idea for me to fucking ponder.

I see guys(naturals,AFC's)game all night(at socials),strike out,then have to go home to no one.

If you're used to not having a gf-cool.

I've been laying with s.o.for 2 years now,so the thought of not having that comfort is quite scary.

Not the best reason to stay in a relationship('cause I dread being lonely),but...

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