I'm nearly 25 and a virgin. I have put sex on a pedestal because of the way I was raised at home. I'm full of it now and I wanna do something about it. Plenty of women want me and I wanna go for it. But to be honest I'm a bit worried that I'm gonna suck at it in the beginning and that they're gonna find it a big issue that I am a virgin.

But if I don't practice my sex skills now, chances are that my future GF is gonna cheat on me with someone who is a better lover.

What separates good sex from bad sex?

I think it's about the man being dominant and confident, or not. It shouldn't become a repititive boring routine. I can imagine that I'm gonna hold back a little because I wanna make sure my cock isn't hurting her. Whereas a dominant man probably just sticks it in and pounds as if it is a porn movie. And I think women like it but I wanna find out what your experiences are

How do you make her scream? I think giving her oral should be part of the game on every single occasion. I want to become a sex expert and do the things that most men forget about

Hi mate. Okay I'm gonna suggest you few things. First off you'd better lose your virginity soon. Without being so picky but mostly without worrying about being good or bad. Just do it, remember it's in your genes to 'reproduce'. Do not even bother yourself with a LTR for, now you're probably right girls at your age do prefer good sex and as a result they would cheat on you. A simple one-night stand will just do perfect. Second, after you've done this you will eventually realise this:
'Was THIS the big deal?, That's it??' Now if you think you were not good, just read Daniel Rose: Sex God Method and also keep in mind that practise makes perfect.

There is really no point in reading books on sex before you try it. It's something that is hard to describe well and it's really hard to understand anything about those books if you haven't done it yet. oh and ALSO IMPORTANT: DO NOT, repeat DO NOT even consider for a wild second that sex is gonna be like in porn movies. It's all different. You may be able to learn a few moves and recognize a fake orgasm scream('cause that's what it is 99% of the time in porn) but that's all for it. Now good luck! I think some others might reply to this as well, don't think I'm a sex god or something just had sex a few times lol

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Being a virgin has never been a problem for me until people started to look at me differently because of it. My friends began saying things like "you better don't tell any girl that you are a virgin, that is a huge turn off and she will lose interest"

That type of stuff makes me insecure. And so does the fact that women I want are often interested in players, which is the opposite of what I am. I've had several chances to have sex with random bar sluts. Some were physically attractive but I was not in love with any of them.

I have a hard time separating feelings from lust, and I don't see myself losing my virginity to someone I'm not in love with. But I can either do that or remain a virgin.
There is no such thing as "the one". That is the biggest lie I was ever told.

I don't think it's common that people lose their virginity in one night stands. But I can tell you that I'll be pretty drunk to avoid nervousness. I have recently bought condoms. Now I gotta find a good place/scenario to use them. In my student town there are so many sluts and I'm seen as more attractive than average. It shouldn't be hard to get some if I go for it

Think about this as a role playing game. You are going to lose the attribute: 'virginity'. Then what happens is you get some points to 'confidence'. A spell called 'Realization' is being cast on you at the same time. You get a new skill called 'Sex' and its level increases exponentially at the first few times you use it(less increase later on). When you meet the character you prefer to be in a relationship with you will be all prepared, and the 'luck' factor will affect your relationship less and when someone tries to get your gf to cheat on you, he has to roll at least 19 with two D10 instead of just 5.
Sorry lol I just got back home from roleplaying with some friends. It's so much fun, especially when you add pickup elements to it like:

// WARNING the following part is OFF topic.
DM says: There's a hot Elf chick who holds the information about the whereabouts of Mystery's treasure. You can approach and try to seduce her, or figure out on your own.
Lauers(Rogue): I can seduce her. I approach and open her.
DM: Your attraction level is 5 adding to that 2x7+1 = 20. Your opener hit, you now have the attention of the girl.
Lauers: I run the cube on her.
DM: Ooops sorry you rolled 1, you farted and that's an instant blowout. Damn I can smell it did you shit your pants or what?
(All of us laughing our asses off)
etc....
// END of OFF topic.

So anyways, good luck on losing your virginity!

PS.: Just before you ask why we roleplay instead of going out sarging, there's such a huge storm here, I could hardly make it to my friend who lives nextdoor...

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