hello

i tend to screw up right after i got the emailaddresses.
i mean,
they give them to me but i dont know what to do with it :S
i add them on msn,, but i dont know where to talk about to make them feel attraction towards me.
So i make silly jokes, sometimes act cocky neg them (but not always in a good way)
LOL i tend to be mr nice guy. (I got that figured out just by myself )
but how not to be a mr nice guy. Im really having difficulties not to be.
ohw and the only reason why i get those emails is because girls think im cute and tall and quite goodlooking. I believe.
Friends of mine say i act like goofy,, but if i dont act like goofy i think im intelectual and boring.

thx in advance.

Instead of being goofy, you need to become suave. Watch movies with spys and guys that are really good with women (theres a couple threads about good movies to watch). Off the top of my head: Meet Joe Black, Top Gun, Bond movies, this TV show I just started watching called Burn Notice. You want to see how other guys act and talk and then act similarly. Usually you act goofy when you feel unsure of yourself, so just read up on as much material as possible and then you won't feel quite so unsure.

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"The 'Brick Walls' are there to allow you to prove how badly you want something!" ~ Randy Pausch

~ Rye

Dude, avoid online communications
all together. They're not very effective.

MSN, no offense, is so sixth grade in
picking up girls.

Instead, you need to get her number
and call her THE NEXT DAY. Why wait
three days? So she can meet another
12 men? Call the next day and make
a time to see her.

That's how it's done.