Have you ever had a girl you love so much, not want to talk to you, again?

I dated this girl for a year, best time of my life. I had to move away at the end of the year to university, we were going to do long distance, but before I moved some things changed. She was my first love and im crazy about her. We broke up because she needed space, I tried to win her back, but the more i tried, the more it drove her away (ironically). We were crazy about each other, crazy. I guess I made it easier for her to move on but im , exactly, in the same place. Now im back, visiting, she doesn't reply to my texts, she doesn't even want to talk. I saw her downtown once out at night, it was just, like she was freaked out.

I can't imagine being with any other girl, or being as happy as i ever was with her again.

This is really sweet. Sounds like their are still strong emotions between you two. I hope it works out the way you hope it does. Good Luck

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Skooled to The Game

She doesn't want to talk, doesn't respond to text messages. What else do you need to get the hint? It sounds like she has moved on, you need to do the same. Is it hard? Hell yes. Is it going to drive you nuts? Absolutely, but...you have to get this girl out of your head.

You can't imagine yourself being with another girl RIGHT NOW, and you may think you will never be happy again but I promise you these feelings will go away. The best thing you can do is keep busy, meet other girls, go on dates.

Delete her number from your phone so you are not tempted to call her.

Eventually you will look back and chuckle at your own post.

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Whysoskinny,

We discussed this a long time ago, remember?
I gave you some advice back then, and you said you were gonna follow it. You never did.

Other people gave you the EXACT same advice, and yet you chose not to listen to anybody. You continued acting needy and you continued creeping her out.

Trust me, I UNDERSTAND how you feel about this girl. I really do. My situation was even worse.

But you need to quit blocking people out when they give you advice. You need to actually follow the advice. Action. You're not doing shit, and now you're back at square one. And now you ask how come this happened? Is this really a surprise to you?

I'm really fighting hard not to seem like the world's biggest douche here, but you're making it so difficult for me. . .

When I said that you will creep her out to the point she never wants to see or talk to you - THIS IS WHAT I MEANT.

I really don't know what else to say.

All you can do is move on now.

And I'm even more serious now than I was before.... MOVE ON. Of all the advice that you've been ignoring from me personally and from other people - at least take this piece of advice. There's NOTHING you can do to get her back (right now).

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