This' a topic rarely discussed between my MILF gf & I.

She's 40,so there's no excuses for not havng hidden-sexual fantasies;opposed to an 18 y.o.who hasnt explored her deeper self yet.

Just yesterday I finnaly was able to get my cyber hands on Nancy Friday's "My Secret Garden",highly recommended by relationship coaches.

The book details letters submitted by women about their hidden fantasies.

Some wives talked about being gang-banged by bunch of men.

Others fantasized about incest...

So women do have fantasies so Im tryna tap into that[my gf's brain].

She's very close with her dad,as a lot of girls are,so I had thoughts on asking her if she ever fantasized about her dad.

Seems like a crazy thing to ponder asking but...

I tried tapping into her fantasies once(indirectly),so I asked her what are some things we should do or try that she think about.

She says 69(lol).She wants more of that.

Well,not quite what I was looking for.

I was fishing for something deep(er).

A dark-dirty fantasy:3 somes,gang bangs,girl on girl,being fucked covertly in public(which we did,but it was my fantasy).

I wanna know something deep.

Unless she doesnt have true taboo-like fantasies.

Guys,Im into the erotic,freaky,wild,over-the top,adventurous shit.

I need newness to keep my attraction(sexual)for my gf.

I hate sexual routine so I get creative during sex to keep things alive;she must appreciate my versatility.

I need to find a way to make her open up and share her fantasies with me.

Straight up asking is tactless and may get her defensive.

I'll figure it out I guess.

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Guys,Im into the erotic,freaky,wild,over-the top,adventurous shit.

I need newness to keep my attraction(sexual)for my gf.

I hate sexual routine so I get creative during sex to keep things alive;she must appreciate my versatility.

You and I have the same mindset k-loc. I feel the EXACT same way.

One sure fire way to get my girl to open up about fantasies is to ask her questions about sex after a glass of wine or 2. It's amazing the things she will let out of the closet when her inhibitions are lowered.

The setting has allot to do with my success as well. In the past, we have watched shows like Real Sex on HBO together over some wine. When I see she is comfortable (by talking about the show and it's content or another sexual topic), I'll fire off some Innocent questions regarding sex, before moving on to the harder (to pun intended) topics.

I've made my girl comfortable talking about sex by bringing it up on a regular basis. I don't quizz her every day but I usually place a sexual flirty spin on everything, just to keep things fun. But I keep my cool in the process.

You may want to visit an adult rental store together, if you haven't already. Pay attention to the types of movies she looks at. That's a good way to find out what she has twirling around in her head. Let her know that she can be honest and open about the movie she chooses to look at, you will not judge her. Oh, and don't forget the class of wine before visiting the store lol.

The most successful tactic I have used with women in the past is making them feel COMFORTABLE with sex and their fantasies. If they are not comfortable talking about it, game over.

I'm always cool, calm and collected when the topic of sex comes up. I don't act like they are doing me a favor by taking their clothes off. Most guys go crazy and act like idiots if they see a GLIMPSE of a boobie. That's probably why most girls keep their thoughts and desires to themselves.

I am very experienced with women, so that has always given me an advantage when it comes to remaining relaxed.

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Sinful-We're sure like-minded on this one.

Good stratergy in delving into her thoughts over glass of wine-lowered inhibitions.

Thats when ppl let thing out.

We've watched Real Sex on HBO plus the Taxi-Cab confession on HBO.

She secretly enjoyed it[never told me to change the station].

That was a golden opportunity for me to explore her fantasies but I didnt.

The topic of sex seems taboo to my MILF gf!

IDk if it's age(she's 40) which has her more conservative or what.

She does love to watch action movies(shoot-em up types),ss according to your great insight Sinful,that could be a clue to what she likes also-in the sexual realm.

Lol,I just hate guys too who go crazy from seeing tits.

Definitely would make women more insecure about revealing things.

Hey,good advise Sinful.

I have 3 tactics in going about this.

1)Glass of wine or some cocctail.

2)Real Sex or some erotica

3)Visiting a spot where sexual explorations' normal.

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I love women that are conservative when it comes to sex, or view sex as Taboo. They are the most fun to corrupt. In my experience, girls that were conservative didn't have the right 'guidance', that's where guys like u and I come in.

Good luck!

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Lol,hey Sinful,you are so sinful bro'!

Im all for corrupting minds too.

What fun in having a fully-experienced girl whose mind you cannto work on and guide(lol).

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