Hey guys

I am a virgin. Nothing more to it. 17 years old.

I am going to lose my V CARD today, if I play it right, since the HB has practically offered it to me.


One problem - And this may be embarassing but I need help -

I am nervous. Please help guys how can I overcome this nervousness?


Thank you all so much!

I felt the same way my first time. I was nervous, yet very eager. Just try not to see it as a big deal. Remain calm.

Just act like you know what you're doing. If you think about it, it's not complicated. lol. It IS as simple as it seems. Honestly it may take you a while to get off. It did for me for the first time (but she didn't mind!!). If you don't get off and she does, and doesn't want to continue, that's cool with you.

Afterwards you'll probably think to yourself "That's it?". Simple! Don't get me wrong though, IT'S AWESOME! Let us know how it goes (lay reports, or here).

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watch a porno

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LOL. The act is simple, man. The feeling is awesome.

Is it HER first time?

1 can of Red Bull....

Nahh play it cool,act like you've been there before and play some slow romantic jams to get the mood going.
Just don't get too nervous,relax.
Actually I was 17 when I lost my virginity.What I did to set the mood is play some slow jams off a mixtape I made and played it,I dimmed the lights and It was on!
GOOD LUCK.


.... Warm apple pie!

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LOL. My first time I was about 19. The girl set it all up. She convinced a friend of hers to let us use her mobile home one night. So her friend "disappeared" for the night. That girl is still desirable to other guys to this day. Just not to me, lol. Yes, that was a completely AFC setup, lol. But hey, it worked.

Thanks guys for your replies.

Swede - I would be very grateful if I lasted a long time lol. I will write a report. Not quite sex today, but it is coming very soon.

LA Tripp - I am not sure if it is her first time. I very much doubt it lol. And I didn;t know there was AFC ways to have sex lol.

Qwesence - Thanks for the advice mate.


It should happen soon guys. Meeting her again soon but the parents will be in this time I will write a full report when it does

staying relaxed is the key as others said, but for me as simple as putting on a condom could sound WASNT, so id recomend u practice putting it on just in case (even after practicing though i fuked up my first time because i was nervous i guess and everything just went wrong, however try #2 was 'A GREAT SUCCESS! I LIKE!'

good luck keep us posted

Actually, very, VERY good advice on that post. PRACTICE PUTTING THE CONDOM ON. There is a right way and a wrong way, believe it or not. And, believe it or not, MANY guys don't know how.

P.S. When you are having sex, the AFC thing to do is hurry up and get done. Don't do that. Take your time. ENJOY HER BODY. Very, very important. Enjoy her body and let her enjoy you exploring her body. That will build her up even more for you. Plus, with it being your first time, it will build you up too.

That's basically what I was going to say. Take your time, have a good long time of it. Hopefully she is shaved, but if not and its not an enormous jungle down there, then go down on her and it will give you a good idea of what you are going to be dealing with when you have sex. Ask her what she likes if you can phrase it in a non AFC way. Don't be completely soft and romantic, use a bit of teeth when you suck on her nipples, girls love it and if you're ridiculously gentle, then it will be boring.

Make sure you shave your pubes man, because chicks HATE going down on a guy with hair because it gets in their mouths, it also makes it look bigger and nicer.

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plenty of good tips here but the best one is practice putting on that condom!.... now on to the fun stuff, i suggest starting of with some foreplay. make sure you have the change to explorer each other and find out what the other likes (sucking, licking, biting) and what place. this builds up for the moment. try to have music in the background. something r&bish. and always remember DON'T RUSH! make it something lasting for both of yall.

to get over nervousness my first time. i did pushups before she came in the room to give a lil adreniline rush then thought to myself I'M GONNA BE THE LOVER SHE EVER HAD... it worked for me. i lasted longer then usually and she never knew i was a virgin. good luck!

you can even get her involved and tell her that it turns u on if she puts the condom on for u

If she's planning it, then she wants it to last longer than 15 seconds.

I've got a pretty open group of girl friends (HB8s) and we were discussing this a few nights ago. If she initiates it in a wild way, she'll want it hard and fast with time for more later.

If it's seduction she's after then make her earn the right to have sex with you. This is dangerous as you have to continually assess her mood. Wait too long and you move into LJBF. Move too fast and you'll ruin it. Seduction is about not giving them what they want with the illusion they are going to get it soon. Keep the mood playful and you'll have a great time. It will soon move to wild and hard

It's all down to personal preference, but remember that there are 2 of you having sex, not just one.