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PostPosted: Tue Sep 25, 2007 11:46 am 
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PostPosted: Tue Sep 25, 2007 7:19 pm 
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Easy, don't try to impress him and never take anything he says seriously.
Then DLV him whenever he tries to go all caveman. Search out AMOG-Destroyers.

Him: "Now did I say you could talk? Did I?"
Me: "Thanks for the permission there "cool guy"

Him: "Exactly, Now EAT your food and Shut Up!"
Me: *laugh* Tone it down man, I've already got a mother.
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Me: Hey Boss/Pal/Chief/Buddy we're just trying to have a good time. What's the prob'?

Any response you get from him is gonna either make him try to gain your validation in front of women or look like a tool by being over aggressive and not fun.


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PostPosted: Tue Sep 25, 2007 10:03 pm 
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For any guy trying to make an impression on a lady this is bad stuff, worst is he's Alphaly aggresive. Does do stuff like , "Now did I say you could talk? Did I?", "Exactly, Now EAT your food and Shut Up!". Which of course tells HBs he's in control and he's Alpha. Good in talking, firing back at whatever comes outta your lips, no chance of backing off and if it brawls down to a physical level you'd lose without a doubt there's this ultimate question that needs answering.

How do you disarm such an Alpha Male?
Here's how u handle this:
Act like u got a pair next time. U can borrow mine if u need too....
Or u can just shut up and eat your dinner

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PostPosted: Tue Sep 25, 2007 10:35 pm 
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Love to give that type just a little pat on the back, and then act very cold and higher then him. Mostly this just instantly puts you in a higher position then him. This is what the leaders of football or whatever teams do to show they are in power. (ONLY do this if he knows you quite well, Or if your flirting with girls he's with.)

And ofcourse if he touches you, go: hey hands of dude, Don't get all touchy on the first date!
Or: uhmhummmm Dude, I don't swing that way, save that for your boyfriend.

But I've found that the talking only works in a group, You don't want to do that 1v1. The Pat on the back works wonders, just everytime you see him give him a pat on the back, to Show higher status.


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PostPosted: Wed Sep 26, 2007 1:45 am 
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Here's how u handle this:
Act like u got a pair next time. U can borrow mine if u need too....
Or u can just shut up and eat your dinner
Oh Cross LOL!!!! so wrong but yet so funny only u

Presidente Inquiring minds want to know Did u you shut up and eat your dinner? lol

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One phrase tells it all. You guys are great! Thanks!
And EasyLover... Where'd you get that? :twisted:


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I actually need some help on this subject too..
see i gamed up this girl at my school and she went along with my kino and everything then later i find out she goes out with this dude that probably lifts houses as weights i mean he looks literally like king kong and guess who hes trying to fight....yup u got it me. wat should i do?


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