Hey folks. So I have to say that pick up has greatly improved my life in almost every aspect. If it weren't for a friend introducing me to pick up I would still be a very sad soul and not an incredibly confident happy person I am today.
Before PUA:
I consider myself a fairly attractive person, but I used to be an anti-social shut in. I used to spend hours never going outside. I remember spending a whole summer vacation sleeping throughout the day just so I could wake up at night and watch the late night scrambled porn channels I got for free in my room while masturbating profusely. A horrible cycle that left me socially anxious with a low self-esteem. I was depressed all the time wondering why I even bother living.
During PUA:
After a friend introduced me into pick up, I became inspired. I read EVERYTHING I could get my hands on and watched every youtube video out there. I learned not to take every suggestion PUAs gave literally, but to shape it into a lifestyle I wanted to see. I began talking to everybody around me no matter what just to build up my social skills. It was hard at first (really hard) but I pushed myself.
I STOPPED WATCHING PORN!!!!! As a matter of fact I got rid of my TV and internet, which forced me to go outside.
I trained myself to show positive body language (no sloughing, no hands in my pockets, looking people in their eyes, no looking at the ground walking with swagger with purpose like I own the place). I learned to show a genuine smile, and to look good. I started exercising to feel better about myself and give myself a sense of self worth. I changed my mind state filling my thoughts with positive energy.
I began meeting people and developing a crew of folks I could go out practicing pick up training myself to become the leader of the pack. The best method I've learned when it comes to approaching women is to gain an incredible amount of social proof and to have the goal of being rejected. For example going to clubs my goal was to approach as many women as possible to see how many times I would be rejected. The most I ever got was 57 in one night, but in turn I got 5 numbers
I finally reached the point where I was messing around with 7 or 8 women at a time. It was insane. Constant text messages, fucking all the time, going to random cities I've never been just to meet up with some girl. My record was fucking four girls in one weekend (I was shooting dust by the 4th one).
After Pick Up
I finally got to the point where I was ready to settle down, and I came across a woman that is not only incredibly attractive to me, but we connect on so many levels its beautiful. I created a group of friends that are all socialites and we always go out for random adventures. I have amazing social skills to the point where I can be the center of attention without even trying. I use my PUA skills at my job which has led to great connections. I get invited everywhere all the time. Its great.
In Conclusion
A day in my life before pick up: Staying at home all day hating my life.
A day in my life after pick up: House parties, road trips with amazing people, camping, cycling all over town, BBQs, art shows, live music, breakfast in bed, bonfires by the beach. This is the good life.
CHAT
