just noticed a lot of people keep asking guidance on saying or doing certain things for other people's benefits. I always see posts like "should i tell her this or will she get angry" or "should i hide this secret or do you think she'll find out anyway and therefore affect the outcome i want"

Its like they havent thought "hey why dont i just do/say this because its what I FEEL i should do, for my own benefit." like admitting your a virgin or have one ball or something.

i mean i bet most people might be in a phase or something and dont get me wrong, i aint saying im perfect or shit but i don't think asking people on here whether you should tell this girl you fancy >insert something really unimportant< because you wonder if she'll find out anyway or if itll affect her and therefore what i want.

its just strange to me, im not saying dont look out for others emotions but its a bit weird when people wonder about morality as if "hey i dont care unless it affects a certain outcome i want then im bothered about her feelings."

im not preaching or judging just an observation, i just see this a lot and i wonder. its on my mind and journalling is fun.

peace and love x

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