So to make a long story short...
I had a convo in a bar with a girl (HB8)
She showed me some IOI's...

Than there was this song....
Mariah carey - all i want for christmas

She said to me...let's dance... (it was a pub there were like 3 people dancing the rest was standing, it was not crowded)

It was a shittest if you ask me....she just wanted to test me....but i didnt knew how to respond....
And the funny thing is...I can dance!....but i hate that chistmas song!

What to do when a girl asks you to dance?

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"There is always a way to get that girl, just get on the track"

AnyWay.

I can't dance for jack. So if it gets to the point where I have to, I make a fool out of myself, but involve her. It's probably not a good idea to do it early on, you need quite a bit of rapport to have her enjoying it. I usually do the washing machine (where you hold both hands up and spin around individually) and other such stupid moves, or I make fun of them if they do something silly. But I never stay on the dance floor for more than like a minute.

That's just me though, my game is all in conversation.

I guess... maybe... you could dance with her, but use it as a chance to isolate? Like take her away from the dance floor, perhaps to a deck outside or some other part of the bar that is away from most of the noise and then do a romantic dance or something? Man I really don't know, I avoid dancing like it's herpes.

I don't think it was a shit test....she is including herself in the request. Now if you were in a set with her friends and she told you to dance with one of her girlfriends...THAT would be a shit test. I have been in that situation before and I deflect it by telling her to dance with her friend or apply the following neg..."Oh? Are you like a CRUISE DIRECTOR or something?" or "Damn ur bossy"..... In your situation it looks more like you missed an opportunity to demonstrate some value. Good luck!

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Atomicglow

yeah you are right i need a good neg for that or demonstrate some value when i'm feeling the beat;)

or just make fun of myself if i think the girl likes that

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"There is always a way to get that girl, just get on the track"

AnyWay.

Sounds good....Be careful with the self deprecating humor though. Most chicks look at that as a sign of weakness....and will peg u as an AFC. Remember your demonstrating value so don't sell yourself short - even with humor. You and I understand that most confident guys will go with the self negs but chicks do NOT understand that....intellectually they might...but emotionally and subconsciously they TOTALLY don't. Good luck!

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Atomicglow