Hey man, you sound like me, I was the same way. I'm good looking, but shy, and read way too much.. but theres no substitute for infield.

I've been going out with some talented PUAs and mPUAs. What I've learned from them is that they all get rejected and way more than you'd think. But what makes them different is that they aren't phased by it. They don't care, and move onto the next target.

You need to accept rejection and stop fearing it. It doesn't matter. Just go out and expect to get rejected.... you'll learn that it's not so bad and women are nothing to be scared of.

If you go out partying with mates talk to one and agree to give him say $100 or £100 of whatever at the start of the night, each time you approach someone he gives you a ten back, if you dont approach he keeps the money or any left over if you do say only 7 approaches he keeps 30.

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Probably not the best advice but try and find a PUA around your area. Hopefully hes up for going out go out. You will feel all horrible about going up and approaching, but after a whole nite of that feeling gather some openers and routines and just go in and make sure ur wing is ready to pick up and your be fine. Your leave with a massive smile and never look back!

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if you bothered your gonna start drinking drive to the club, you'll be surprised how much you dnt need to drink to have a good time. Then no1 can take away your approaches.

I went out on Friday and on Saturday. Went to a club with my friend. We met couple of girls we already knew there. I didn't kino any of them. Just.. mind froze. And we danced with them, also.. no kino. I tried to self-amuse myself by joking with the girls. They laughed but nothing more. I felt so.. weak in the club, that all other men were so much more manly than I was. I felt really out of place. When we left the club, I just felt such a big state rise. Like.. when I got out of the club and me and my friend were walking on the street.. I felt that life came into me and I was more confident. That's stupid, I have to get good in the club bc I like the girls that are in clubs, they are hot. In the club, I didn't make any cold approaches.

Anyways, I also uninstalled all my games from PC. 124 GB. They take away 80% of my time and give nothing back in return.

Yipkajeeeee, mofos
I had a university party tonight in a nightclub. I went alone, I had one-two people I knew there and I don't talk to one of them that much.
On the way there, I repeated myself all the advice I needed. I told myself to have no expetations, to have fun, to stay in set even if there is silence aka.. go to the set and try to get blown out by not trying or caring about the conversation, maybe one of the most important parts: TRUST MYSELF and I HAVE SELF-ESTEEM THAT I AM BORN WITH.

I went in and was in positive mood. I went on the second floor and immediately sat down to a table where I knew one person (don't talk to him, only when I am very drunk). And engaged him, there were two guys and 2 girls in the table. Another dude I did not know engaged me and we talked and he bought me a beer (nice, free beer). He was friendly to me and I felt a bit sorry for him because he was introverted guy, or it seemed that way to me. The entire night, when I saw him, he was sitting alone or being quiet in that table.

Then I moved on, to the next table that had five girls and one guy in it. The hottest girl was sitting on his bf lap. The other girls were.. about 6-7/10 scale. Not my type, except the hotter one with his bf. Then another girl came to the table who was a birthday girl. We chatted there and first, when I went in and introduced myself, everybody were really hyped. Then.. I talked a bit and they were hyped, then.. I was a bit too cocky and it went a bit bad.. I sat there.. being quiet.. and I thought.. ok, I guess this is the moment when I will sit quietly, not care about the group and let myself to be blown out. And.. then.. I got rocking again, basically.. every sentence I said, they laughed really hard. It is beautiful to hear, when the girls are talking and I say a word, and they immediately all shut up and listen to me. AND.. I left the table. They said "are we too boring or smth like that?" I went downstairs and saw two chick sitting, I went in, introduced myself and sat down. They were eating it up like really hardly, one girl especially, other one not like 100% but ok level. When I said I will check other people, they said "are we too boring?" Not in an angry way but.. like.. you are so high value, don't leave us. Then.. I saw my friend I knew already, I asked.. why are you sitting here.. and.. I didn't want to move the set.. but they were.. ok.. let's go then.. I was like.. wtf? I just managed to move a set of 4-5 people, awesome and then.. the girls from upstairs saw me and.. boom.. 6 more girls sat down the table just because of me, how awesome is that Then I just bulshitted with them and I managed to get the hot chick into me, I don't know if like.. sexual into me, but.. she was like very interested in talking to me and stuff. I amog her boyfriend BIG TIME. He was not there and I actually didn't want to amog him but just.. the amog sentence was so fcking funny that I just had to say it. They all bursted out laughing when I did it and then.. the hot girl asked me to sit on her lap... I did it just for the fun of it. We were talking that his bf was his lapdog, a little chiaua. Then.. I got bored and left and they, again, third time when I left a set.. said: "are we boring?"

Like.. was I really that awesome or was it like a shittest? I felt I was awesome.. that's why haha.
Then, the club got open to all the people and I taped myself to the one group my friend was in. I did it because I was afraid to approach people who were not part of the university. When I approached the university people, it was easier because I had a reason and a topic to talk about. "What year are you, what is your major" But I was afraid that the other people, not part of the university, I have nothing to talk about.

I know it's a stupid thing but..still. And it is so refreshing that when I went on the dancefloor.. some hot chick were checking me out. Like.. when I am usually out then I rely ALL and EVERYTHING on my looks, I constantly am playing this tough sexy guy and I am LOOKING for validation from girls that they look towards me and think I am handsome. But tonight, I didn't even think about my looks and when some chicks DID look at me, it was like.. woah.. why are they looking at me? Nice..

What I did good? It was a super night and it far surpassed my expetations + I DID NOT DRINK ALCOHOL. One bottle of 0,33 beer but that's it.
What I need to do next: get physical, there was no touching, intent, approach hot girls also (I approached medium and not that pretty girls tonight), approach girls that are not part of the university (well.. it was one time party so, next time, there will not be people from the university).

Questions: what should be the reason for myself to approach girls that are not from my university? Like.. something silly: I am allowed to approached them because they have a leg. It's the common thing we share

dude your doing good dont trip 8)

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I TOTALLY sympathize with you man. The downs have been down beyond any conceivable notion. I've been there. And you know what? It makes the ups so much more fucking gratifying bro! It's like you're on fire and nothing can touch you, all because you're in such a positive and interactive state. The key to keep the success rolling is to remember that physical state and recall it at any time. Keep up the great work mayne

Thanks. I am going out now more often I try to go out Thursday-Saturday. I have not approached yet but I am getting more used to being out