Im new to relationships , i see no point in them and was happy meeting lots of different women and then I became involved with some girl I had previously had sex with before . My relationship lasted about 3 months ( haha )

I phoned her this morning after she was being cold to me all weekend and i the same . I basically said " I can see whats happening here , but its christmas and i cba with this happening before christmas besides i dont want to be listening to ceelo green - fuck you for the next few days . yada yada yaaaa ,

I asked her what do you believe makes a relationship work "forgot what she said"

She asked me the same and i just replied with " multiple orgasms and cheeseburgers , we've had neither"

She had a go at me for saying that and i asked her why we didnt have sex and she said its just she doesn't feel right about her self at the moment.

She said she doesn't want a relationship or to be involved with anyone at the moment , she thought she wanted a relationship but she doesnt anymore

I said this shit happens so yeah whatever life moves on and that .... bye

I would really appreciate some raw to the bone advice on how to handle this situation , to either have a successfull breakup and tips on how to handle it or how to spike her interest in me again .

talk to her in person

finish as a gentleman

wish her good luck with her life

and then completely IGNORE her.




nothing else.

*headdesk*

Multiple orgasms and cheeseburgers? Really? No wonder she went bonkers at you for your response. She was almost certainly expecting a semi-serious reponse, even if you didn't feel like giving one or didn't want to play the game with her. You could have come up with something like, "Trust, loyalty and always making sure that we're on the same page."

Cheesy but effective.

You blew it with her with that line. I'd do what Apocalyptica said, be nice to her, wish her luck and walk away. She'll either be thankful for the clean break or run after you faster than Wile E. Coyote with a rocket up his ass.

It's the only option left open to you at this point.

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Omg i ve been in the exact same situation...And if u follow some steps i promise u that she ll come back to you.

1) ignore her : i know its really hard, but just do it! whenever you think of her, think that she's the one who lost you, you were the "prize". Don't text and write a "Z" beside her name, which will almost guarantee you that you won't read her name if your scrolling down your contacts list. As for fb, hide all her posts from your home page. Also try not to go on fb that much...

2) Show her that its not a big deal for you : Show her that you go to parties and have a lot of fun! make her regret that she left you...Show her that you're a fun person to be with!

3) Be super polite: Be a gentleman when you talk to her...Forget what she has done to you whenever you guys talk, and NEVER talk about things that pissed you off etc...

4) Take your time: whenever she texts which she will prob after a week, take your time! or don't even text back until the next day and DON'T say sorry for being busy just answer what she said and be like "p.s my phone was dead yesterday"

5) DHV!!! prob the most important part is DHV at this point, be a busy person because you're invited to this girl's birthday party or something....

Hope this helps man good luck!