^ and once she's interested and isolated, due to social pressure and emotional pressure she will feel obligated to talk to you and get to know you. Return the favor and create that bond between you two

Gaming introverts is easy. The reason they just answer with "uhh I don't know" is because they have so many defences up that they don't know how to lower them.

I have found that they need a crutch. If they have friends there they have something to hide behind. You can get yourself to be that crutch through conversational hypnosis, which is much easier on introverts because they are very susceptible to it.

But if you disagree with that, the best approach I think is that they need to be taken from the place you found them. Moving them, and this can just mean walking 30 meters away, removes their attachment to the place they were and you become the constant. You become the safe thing.

One way of doing this, if she's waiting for friends, "well hey let's do a lap and see if we can find our friends" OUR friends.

Also you have to gauge how they react to you and others. Some introverts are looking for an excuse to bust out, and a good way to probe this is to mention how modern society expects us to behave just so, and hint on how you like to bust out when you're alone. This also gives you an opportunity to isolate her further.

I opened an introvert at a shopping center and we ended up on the roof of the carpark mucking around and I could tell I had got her to let go. That was extremely surprising and an extreme example, but it's possible.

Also beware that some chicks are sitting there alone for a very, very good reason. Have a good out prepared and do your best to leave them better than you found them.

Yeah introverted women can be challenging and I found some of them are shut off for some dark reasons. Some of them have depression/anxiety or perhaps bi-polar disorders etc as well. I've gamed some "introverted" girls only to find out later that:

1) one girl had a schizophrenic mom under her long term care. Schizophrenia can skip a generation then manifest in the next one thus making her options for kids questionable.

2) another girl had some cancer or some infection in her ovaries

3) another had alcoholic parents (and perhaps even abused) and is an alcoholic herself

4) some just got burned too many times.

5) another I caught coming out of a depression support group.

However, if you are gaming a girl who simply is introverted (not to be mistaken for depression or some deal-breaker) --- I would suggest if you are introverted how would you open yourself?

I'm kind of an introvert but wanting to get out --- I find if people open me then I am generally receptive. I find when dealing with an introvert you have to talk about yourself a lot at first (and generate attraction) and then in the comfort stages just keep talking about yourself and she will interject about her own experiences. I find introverts are more suseptible to commands so I would give her compliance tests and instructions to do various things.

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