Met a girl (HB9) during one of my college classes, talked to her for all of 3 minutes. 2 weeks later, i start a little facebook message convo with her....Here it is....


Me: Hey, don't mean this to come off as creepy haha but are you the girl I talked to a bit during the test in Psych 250??

Her: Yeah I am. I remember because I couldn't pronounce your name haha and I probably still can't say it right.
So yeah how goes it?

Me: haha yeah there's no way the 3 minutes between the time i sat down and when we got the test was enough for you to get my name down...Back home now for break.........When we go back do you wanna get a drink or chick filet or something innocent like that??

Her: haha something innocent.
Well yeah just let me know but only because I'm pretty impressed that you remembered my name and found me after only talking to me for about a minute.

Me: ahaaha you're good at leaving 1 minute impressions. Gotta be honest I'm not much of a long term planner...What's your number I can send a spontaneous witty text to regarding drinks or chicken?

Her: haha well it better be witty or I'll be disappointed
*Leaves number*

So I have her number, going back to school in 2 weeks......Do I text her before then, or just leave it until I get back???


Also, to all you pros out there, can you judge her level of interest based on that discussion alone?

Oh and keep in mind that during the 3 minutes i talked to her I managed to neg her, give her a couple IOI's, she asked me what my name was (IOI from her) and I had her laughing a lot....

Right mate, I'l break down what you did wrong. & that stuff about you droppings IOI's and Negs, Im just gonna ahead and disregard that.



Right;

I dont mean to sound creepy but....

Dont start a conversation with this ever, unless you get caught touching yourself to animal porn. It doesnt come across as confident or playful. It sound as if you asking for permission to start a conversation!

When we go back do you wanna get a drink or chick filet or something innocent like that??

Very direct, but dude I think it may have been too soon. Shouldve talked for a bit longer, but whatever works.
But the bigger flaw was the fact that you asked her if you could go for lunch. Dont ask. Seriously dont. Not in that way anyway, it puts her in a more dominant position, and once again your asking for permission.
Next time just tell her youre going for lunch & ask her if she wants to tag along. Or a notch above just outright tell her shes coming with you (You gotta be firm, confident but Playful! do pull this off mate)

That number
Well done mate, I suppose you got the number. Again, its preferable you dont ask for the number in a needy way, even if its covered with a joke. Just tell her ''Give us your number so I can hit you up later''
Now how to text? Well dude, how long ago was this? I dont much about texting, but I think youre not supposed to leave it out till long to text the girl!
But be playful, sure of yourself and just ask her out for whatever it is you guys would be into.
Work from there mate!

What should I text her then at this point?

there are a whole list of GREAT text openers in the routines thread...

find the one that best fits the kind of game you played with her.

What's a good first text though, because I kinda implied i wouldn't text her until i got back.

Hey, I just [verb] [noun] and it reminded me of you.

HAHAHAHAHAHAHA

Oh man that is an instant classic. Entry #4 in my dictionary of awesome.

I TOTALLY agree with kilativ15's points....He is dead on...my advice is to print out his comments, and tack it to your cork board above your desk.

Regarding your texting her...here are some great openers that are in The Game, that while designed for face to face, can be applied to texting (I myself have used them for cold approaches in chat rooms).

Here are my favorites

You: Hey you're a girl/chick..right?
Her: LOL...uh yeah, I THINK so!
You: Well then you are an expert. My buddy has been dating his GF x 3months. She recently found some old pictures of her and is DEMANDING she burn them! Is she reasonable or insecure?
Her:Ummm...blah blah blah blah
You: (If she says it is okay..you be funny and say...well they were nude pics and see what she says) If she says that she was being reasonable..you assert dominance by saying...so because he is with her now, he is supposed to forget and erase all of his past memories? (this is MY shit test...if a chick sticks to her guns after this question..she is a narcissistic bitch and you should call her out...unless you are an AFC and into oneitis)

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If things go well...I follow up with the (would u date a guy in a wheelchair routine)
Her: ummm sure..everyone deserves love
You: well suppose the paint is peeling, the rims are rusted and the seat is is worn?
Her: LOL you are BAD
You: Ha yes I am...well suppose a Haitian Faith Healer cures him and he can walk again..would u dump him since he isn't a novelty anymore?
.........
Another iteration....
WOuld u date a guy that lived in a tent? Suppose it was a REALLY nice tent?

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I have developed my own after reading a women's blog recently about how Santa Claus keeps women down....

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Hey...I read this article about how Santa Claus is bad for the women's rights movement and I was thinking about...and you know what? I HATE SANTA!!
Her: really how so?
You: well think about it....the song "I saw mommy kissing santa clause!" dude is a cheater man..he is scamming other guys WIVES for god's sake.
Her:LOL
You: What about....He sees you when you're sleeping..he knows when you're awake.....C'mon ...dude is a PEEPING TOM!!!
Her: LMAO!!!
You: PLUS go to ANY mall these days....every small kid I see sitting on his lap is screaming like a pre-adolescent girl in a Freddie Kruger movie (insert ur own horror flick here). I mean dude is Chester the Molester!!!

The way to win ANY chick is with HUMOR, CONFIDENCE, and CREATIVITY!! Good Luck!

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