hello, a little introduction:

my name is Ron, im currently 18, still in highschool,im pretty much a friendly guy, i know PU for 6 months, exactly where my story begins.

so anyhow, 6 months ago i broke up with my girlfriend who was a pretty obessive girl, but together with that she was very giving, anyhow before her i never had actual problems with girls,NC,KC w/e...but after we broke up, it took her exactly 2 days to find herself a new boyfriend, which after 2 years of relationship can crush my confidence,mood,anything good i felt,right now, whenever i try to talk to girls, approach them,even just pass thgrouh the day, im depressed i cant get into the mood i can't do anything right because of that, if any of you have any kind of way to get over such a thing ill be GRATEFUL

GFTOW

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You just need to realize that theres more than one girl in the world. I know exactly how you feel because no more than a month ago , I was in the same situation. Actually I was in a worse scenario than you, I told the girl I liked her and I completely fucked it up. What did I do ? I changed things, a lot of things and now I feel great . You'll get over , the sooner the better

I might write more on this later when I have more time, but a bit of quick advice: First, realize she had her "boyfriend" long before you broke up, you just didn't know it. This is how women work, they never leave a sinking ship without having a life-raft handy. Second, you need to take responsibility for your own happiness, she is not in charge of that. Man-up and force yourself to keep busy, after a few months you will realize you are better off without her. Go to the gym nearly everyday, or go join one if you aren't a member already. Endorphins and an improved body image will help you.

Lastly, love is a chemical just like any other drug, it has a "withdraw" phase. The more you obsess on her, the more active this chemical stays. Stop thinking about her, and put everything that reminds you of her away. Improve yourself as much as possible in this time, use your pain as motivation.

why did you break up with her?