make sure you use the search button as there have been loads of threads discussing this.
but quickly heres what heppend to me the other night when i k closed.
- approach target quickly , i used an opener saying how she was left out the circle and telling her well make a better circle. she loved this so it must be pretty decent.
- kino escalate - the easiest way ive found to do this is by high fiving , twirling and then out her hands round your kneck. also look up the vindicarlo escalation ladder . its awesome
http://www.vindicarlo.com/DiCarlo%20Esc ... lo.com.pdf
- from there its just maintaining strong eye contact whilst triangle gazing ( not sure if this is the right term but it builds up sexaul tension )
then either go for it or use some sort of routine . i tend to just go for it .
hope this helped