I met the girl at the beginning of the semester and we became good friends but i don't think i'm in the friend zone yet, what i mean is, we hang out but it's clear that im attracted to her and she has told me she likes hanging out with me and that im different. in other words, she knows im looking for more than friends.
now let me add that this is the girl that i like and would like to date because she got it all.

she told me she broke up with her ex around summer because he moved and long distance didnt work out and she said that she hopes we are on the same page, which means to me, "dont try to get serious, i still got feeling to my ex"

yesterday my buddy and his gf, me and this girl went on a double date. she loved my buddy and his gf so that bonus points to me that i have good type of friends. we went bowling after a few pitchers and one time i striked and she gave me a hi5 and i kissed her on the lips. she said "Watch it" and i knew i fucked up big time. then we walked home and i said im sorry for doing so that it was inappropriate and i added "but its just cuz im fuckin attracted to you what can i say" and she said "yeah i didnt expect that but thats okay dont worry about it".
we were waiting for the skytrain and went our eys locked i told her some good stuff about her and she said "Stop you make me fluttered" and touched my knee, ioi? well i took it as one.
anyways, i got every possible ioi, she agrees to go on dates and we have fun. no awkward moments at all... i cant think of any at least. some of her friends liked me and said im a cool guy so her friend probably support everything. why cant i even get a little tiny kiss?

You just wrote that you don't think that you're in a FZ, then you go to outline a typical FZ situation. EVERY boy-girl non-sexual friendship is bound by one partner wanting to fuck the other and the other partner content with all the attention he/she receives.
Don't take this personally. You have a chicken shit style when it comes to women. You will ALWAYS interpret whatever a girl says into a 'safe, non-action message'. She could tell you, "My Pussy is wet and I want you to stick you tongue way the fuck deep in there." and you will say, "This means to me, 'she's testing me to see if I am a creep'."

I don't know the circumstance that led to her ex-story above but having read only what you wrote, it sounds like she's telling you, "I'm finally a single girl and ready to rock . . ."
The only mistake you made was kissing this bore for the first time in public. "Watch it" is a reactionary shout just as you would say, "Oh fuck!!" if somebody tossed a cold bucked of ice water on your head. Her "Watch it" is to say, "we haven't announced to the each other or the World that we are dating. Thus at this point, we are not dating. I don't kiss people I am NOT DATING with in public. I am not a slut . . .so, "Watch it!"

But of course you have a habitual tendency to do the chicken shit dance so you go here:
This link i-like-you-you-like-me-vt79450.html?highlight= should be a sticky.
You're playing the prototypical nice guy eunuch. You show her a good time and plenty of respect and when you FINALLY do what comes naturally to a hormonally healthy guy when he meets a girl he likes (you kissed her), you apologize as if you just shot her dog.

Then you keep TELLING her that you like her as if you expect her to say, "Really? Great! I like you! Now I will kiss you, close your eyes . . . " You are not getting a little tiny kiss because you will NEVER GET A TINY LITTLE KISS until YOU KISS HER. Why do you expect the girl to have more balls than you?

Dude, you've already done EVERYTHING a guy can possibly do in order to suck face with a chick. Do you realize that millions of guys suffering from AA, F'd up personalities, no humor, no abilities to attract, and no other friends would cut their right nut to be in your position now? All you need to do is do a round of whatever it is that you do when you are one on one and in private. Get your face RIGHT THE FUCK up to her face. Whisper some shit. It hardly matters what you say at this point. Get this energy rolling . . . and go for it.

*She's been waiting for you to do this for a month. Typically, girls will offer you a golden opportunity just once. . . a penalty kick, a free throw. an easy shot at her pussy. She'll offer something that she thinks is so stupidly obvious, social retards should be able to pick up signals and drop his pants. You may have already frustrated her enough to offer you this 'golden opportunity'. (That 'I'm done with my ex talk could have been it) If you let something like this go . . . game over.

Thanks for the detailed reply! I appreciate it.

As for her ex talk, we were eating dinner and she brought up the conv about "so how many relationships were you in?" and i answered and ask what about you.. she told me and i was like "oh, that explains a lot of things now.." (why she rejected my goodbye kiss saying she isnt ready yet) and then i switch the topic.

so you're saying i shouldn't apologize for that random kiss?
i was thinking talking her for coffee and straight up tell her so shit that will turn her on, like say the "cutest" shit, then whisper something in her ear like you said and wait to see that if i go for the kiss i won't get rejected this time.
if i get rejected one more time that's would be game over in my opinion.

This happened to me before, and the best thing to do is make her feel comfortable then do kino. Before you say bye to her, do the triangle look "look at the her right eye, left eye, then at her lips", and be like "i ve been trying so hard not to kiss you" or "would you like to kiss me? if she says no, be like but i didn't say you could, but it seemed that you wanted to kiss me" and continue the conversation normally. If she says yes, then you're good!

She brought up the 'relationship' chat because she's thinking RELATIONSHIP. . . and really, what the hell does any of that have to do with being turned on and sucking face?

You guys already spent a month without fooling around. Get going. And avoid:
You're in the FZ becaus you didn't have the balls to just GRAB her the frist time around. Offering her quizes now probably won't get you far.

Just close the proximity and bring her CLOSE. It's as if to say. "I don't fucking care who your exboyfriend is or what the thell he is doing back in Wisonsin or Fargo. You're sexy, you're hot and I'm going to kiss you right now." You're going to have to elevate her emotions . . .

alright then i need help with my next move.
i already took her out, bowling, park with a nice lake, dinners multiple times, hanging out at school / study before out quizzes, movie with her best girl friend (my buddy bailed from the double date lol i know.. fail..), double date with my best friend and his gf.. now what
where should i take her where i could express my emotions to her, she will think im the cutest guy she ever met (im good with words being told that before) and when the time is right ill go for the kiss.

i was thinking, there is a nice little park right by our university with nice view and shit.. after she is done her exam ill take her to that place, sit on the hood of my car and do my thing..

Seems to me like you are planning to continue with the same things you've allready tried, pretty much convincing her to be with you by doing nice things for her.

Things havent really worked out as you planned, so why are you still using the same Mr-Nice-plan?

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Vino, vedi, vici.
I drank some wine, I saw her, I conquered

No, no . . . this is a good plan.

See . . .we get all the wrong ideas from those sucky chick movies. We take girls here and there and everywhere and yes, having fun is important . . . but if you do this too much without getting sexual, all her energies go towards 'external fun'. . . and you already did this.

Taking her to 'make out' point is a great fucking idea. Hey, let's go and enjoy the view, take a break from exams is 'what you say'. She says, "Yeah, THE VIEW will be nice". But she's no idiot. She's going because she wants to suck face. Make THIS WORK!!!

PM me, I'll give you a few k close ideas . . .

Anyways, I really hope things will work out.

Best of luck!

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Vino, vedi, vici.
I drank some wine, I saw her, I conquered

pm'ed you. And yeah i agree, i think its a good plan too. and im 90% sure she will agree to go. the 10% are gone because i fucked up quite a bit now... :/

my buddy advise to have a blanket in the car and since its cold outside, sit on the hood and put my arm around her and put the blanket over us.. i think thats too much and looks like i planned it all, what do you think?

so i did what i planned to do. took her to a mountain with sick view, told her what i think, she told me that she is flattered and wish she could say something back but she doesnt want to say what i dont wanna hear. i told her that she doesnt have to tell me and we can take it as slow as she wish and asked if that sounds good and she replied with a yes.
and no i didnt get the vibe that i could kiss her so i didnt. i felt that i will get rejected just by the face expression she had on. it was like, 'fuck you trying again... we talked about it already...' kinda of look

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Your best bet now is to disappear for a few months and come back a new man