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Sometimes... I really don't understand you people. I'm ashamed to be one of us reading shit like this and seeing guys pile up on it. Haven't you guys ever had sisters, mothers, female friends, FUCKING GIRLFRIENDS? This entire approach hinges on a male misconception. "When a man and woman that don't know each other initiate conversation, it's because one of them wants to fuck the other." If you have actually talked to a woman, if you've been there when a female friend was hit on, you might realize women don't think this way, they also don't appreciate the idea that they're only worth engaging for the possibility of sex. Your female friend, sister, or whoever will be totally blown away that some guy that talked to her at the check out line wasn't just being a nice, socially extrovert guy, that he was actually hitting on her. It's only the women that value themselves foremost on their ability to provide sex that think ALL their male-female interactions are based on sex, the others are usually CLUELESS after a good approach.
Sometimes, women think they are worthwhile human beings that are satisfying to interact with, just like you might shoot the shit with a random guy to kill time. You can proclaim your sexual intent up front but you do a disservice to yourself and the girl. Again, most females that place a value on themselves beyond sex, resent that you'd only talk to them because they were born with a cunt. When you take this approach, you also teach yourself over time that this IS the only value a woman has. Then you will have to work backward to undo that sociopathic pattern, that female=vagina and nothing more. Trust me, I know and I've had to undo this logic. It's not okay if you're an adult and not a teenager. Grow the fuck up, or be alone when all your AFC friends who respect women get happily paired off.
Noble cause sir, but you miss the point.
Quick - a fantastic looking girl who's just your type is walking the other direction down the street and is about to turn the corner, what do you do?
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Oh, too late dude, you missed her. Quick turn the corner, is she there? Nop. Lost in the crowd now. Too bad. Guess you'll never know what she would have been like. Nothing left to do but get back to walking where you were going, and start wondering what you missed out on, or start convincing yourself you didn't need to go talk to her anyway.
The point is - sure, it's always good to use the moment and what's going on and what she's doing to start a meaningful conversation, but sometimes - you just want to talk to a girl and there's really no other reason other than you're looking at how hot she is and wondering what she's like.
Would you rather people try to ignore their natural impulses? I firmly believe I'm attracted to girls who would be good mates for me, and them me also. The girls I catch looking at me, are generally the girls I think are pretty darn cute.
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