| Women are walking, breathing, eating and shitting contradictions. That's why I personally stay away from the MILF's, the "practice girls", and larger women. All of these girls have one thing in common. They'll latch onto the first penis that goes in their vaginas and clamp down like there's no tomorrow. Girls like this feed off having relationships. It gives them "value" in otherwise slim-pickins. The relationship is based on how they'll benefit from it and disregard any thought in making it work for you too.
Larger women get married earlier than other women. Wonder why. Their market is small, so instead of ending up on Craigslist as "large and in charge" as her heading for a desperate attempt at coming in contact with any male that wanders in her direction, why not get married to the first AFC that's looking for an easy lay? Then, she can settle into her fulfilling married life of complaining how "predictable" and "boring" her husband is and how she suffers in the marriage when she was the one with the finger on the trigger of that shotgun wedding.
The practice girls (HB1-6) are basically the same in this aspect. Girls like this have extrordinarily high self esteem and belittle the "easy girls" and the "sluts" when they'd trade places with them in a heartbeat to get the male attention that they do. They have the high self esteem because of something called, Cognitive Dissonance. If there is a goal you cannot achieve or something that you cannot have by normal means, you rationalize in your mind that it wasn't worth having in the first place. There's nothing wrong with high self-esteem, just with girls like this it's misguided. They've really done nothing spectacular to warrant it, they just feel "superior" to all those "sluts" that are able to get alot of guys. Alot of girls that have this mentality are total put-down artists, miserable to be around.
With MILF's (If they actually HAVE children) it's rare that their focus is on the guy. Most girls who are in their late 30's creeping into the 40's, they're looking for a man who's compatible with their children and looking to settle into something serious. I, for one, wouldn't get into a relationship with the MILF for this sole fact. Her priorities lie with herself and her kid, why tie myself into that mess when I can get a nice young little thing that'll do anything for me? I DONT need an experienced woman. I NEED one with a vagina.
Now, if they DONT have children, I still wouldn't go beyond casual sex. Like they say, men mature and women just age. Their value decreases over time in the eyes of most men, so that's when these women who supposedly "mature" and go for the AFC's. When in reality, they did not mature, they've just had their fun and realized not as many hot studs are in the market for a 40 something woman worn out like an old catcher's mitt. Now it's time for the guys they've ignored in high school and college to take what's leftover of them and pay their way into the glorious Golden Years of their lives.
I've learned one thing from all of this. Get them young, hot, and low self esteem. These girls dont want to settle, because they know they're in the primes of their lives and looking smokin hot. These women are generally gold-digging scum of the earth...but who said you gotta marry em? Of course, im simply looking for sex at this point in my life and am career oriented, but I wont settle for less because with those types of women, most of the times end with clingy, emotionally attached, and annoying types of relationships. Be the fuck buddy, not the boyfriend or the husband.
With everything I've said, there's always an exception to every rule. This generalization about these types of women though aren't far off from the majority. All of them rarely "play the field" and settle down early on. In marriage they'll slowly but surely let themselves go and leave you both wondering what could have been. Sometimes these marriages work. Sometimes people just choose to stay in resentment filled marriages for outside reasons. Never base a marriage on how long it's been, but if the two can still keep each other's company and keep passion alive.
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