hey guys,
im pretty new to all this. i really like the sound of the direct approach, theres no bullshit etc. i really like sashas post about it too. how your being honest etc.
just one thing though, im not the mnost confident guy in the world. i havent done a direct approach in my life. so feel a bit nervous about it.
what do you guys recommend i do?
thanks,
John

Baby steps are best.

Start out with something like "Hi, I like your shirt". You don't have to worry about starting a conversation or closing just yet. Just get comfortable walking up to women you don't know and saying hi.

Then move on to flirting and closing when you feel more comfortable.

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I was thinking along the same lines.

I'd go direct usually after using an opinion opener.

"Hey can I get an opinion on 'THIS'?"

If she sounds friendly, or not to bad, interact, maybe pay a light compliment as stated above by playher man.

Maybe I do it wrong, but I try to interact so far and deep by their reaction, if they're talkative, friendly etc.

Practice makes perfect.

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An opinion opener would be great for baby steps but that isn't exactly direct game. Direct game would be simply telling the lady you like her shirt, and going forward to telling her she looks good in it and you would like get to know her.
I personally love direct game and I can say you are going to be wasting less time talking to girls directly, if they bite you're in if not you move on instantly.
Basically keep this in mind while running direct game:
"I think this woman is hot, there is nothing wrong with that, and I'm gona let her know how i feel"

from what ive noticed, direct game is best for building rapport, getting a number etc. not one night flings
best thing to do if your low on confidence (imo) is just introduce yourself (or let her do that) and just start talking about anything..... warning: it may get awkward in the beginning and you mihtg strike out a few times before you get comfortable

Me: Hey hows it going? (Confident)

Her: Pretty good. you?

Me: Im doing pretty good. What do you have goin' on today? (Super confident)

Her: Not much. (Or tells me whats going on)

Me: Want to hangout with me? (Fucking bleeding confidence)

(IF YES) Me: Super, lets go!
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(IF NO)Her: No thanks. I dont know you at all.

Me: Silly me. Where are my manners? Im Jax. Whats your name?

Her: Im (name)

Me: Nice to meet you (name) (Handshake (kino))

RAPPORT





Thats my day game.

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I have to figure out a way to say this that doesn't set me up for rejection.

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"Lets go hang out"

As already stated, "let's hang out" or "let's grab a drink (and smile) "

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all of these lines people are giving you arent the answer because its not what you say, its how you say it and if your not confident in how you come off it wont work. Do the newbie mission OVER AND OVER AND OVER... thats what i did and my friends have noticed and commented how out of all of them i have no fear when approaching girls. It really helps.

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hey guys,

thanks for all your replies.

i think id rather be totally honest instead of saying things like nice bag, hair etc. as i dont care about these things.

whats the newby mission?

thanks,

John

and if she still says that knowing your name is not exactly knowing you or something?

Why can't it be honest to say like her bag, hair, shirt, etc.? You don't ever compliment a women? Probably time you learn to. Don't ever really compliment looks from my personal standpoint. You walking up to her is all the validation she needs from a looks standpoint so don't compliment her physical assets. I am a huge fan of honesty, when I say I appreciate something about a women (accessories, clothes, shoes, hair, etc.) I feel everyone loves a compliment and it makes them feel good. When I compliment a women I genuinely mean it.

I have told a girl I like her glasses(they had a smooth style), she lit up so much, Response: I bought these a year ago and no one has ever complimented them, thank you so much. You know how easy it is to go from there, all I said is "That is disappointing well maybe people in your life need to pay more attention to you".

If you don't care about a women, she will always sense it. If you act is she is a notch on the bed or belt she will know. If you don't care enough to be nice why would she like you enough to have a conversation?

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Agreed, how many times have you done this Jax? What is your success ratio?

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When she says that knowing your name is not enough then you just go into normal game and start getting rapport by asking questions, routines, etc.


I have tried this in places like books stores and malls. I admit I haven't done it to much but the times I did it worked great

Just dont forget the whole confidence part.

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