Okay this happened after my last girlfriend dumped me. I fixed at one girl I really like. At this point I didn't know much about pick-up and did not plan on using it in my life. Also admit that mu judgements are biased and I cannot rationally weigh things. I asked the girl out and it was nice night, we got tipsy (crossfaded) and I walked her home. She sit there and was kind of "kiss me", but I have a very traumatic experience before and I really suck at kiss closing. I feel really insecure and right now am trying to clear this out with NLP techniques. So I did not do a thing. The next day I asked her again to go out and she agreed. We went to my summer house and made a BBQ. But this time I did not see any real IOIs and so I did not do a thing. The next day, we had lecture together everyday, she started mentioning a boyfriend. And then I tried to talk her out, but it became a hard job. After that she called once or twice, but I decided to be hard to get.

How would you analyse the whole thing?

i dealtt with one itis for a year, lol