Your that guy that everyone knows, your the centre of attention, the most animated guy in the place, you make the smallest things into the biggest news, your always smiling, your always fun... your high energy.

But when it comes to creating attraction, is being high energy a good thing?

On one side, you can become a breath of fresh air, people feed off you, you become high value, and women want to get to know you... on the other side, you can come across childish, and creepy!

You never see any of the master pick-up artists running around, dancing irratically. They always maintain that control, even when having the time of their lives in clubs, theres always that body language that conveys dominance, they dont fidgit, they dont look around needlessly, they stay relatively still and move slowly... because this conveys dominance? because being slow is seductive?

So what do you do? Do you find being high energy is more effective than being that cool guy? or is it a balance between the two? Would love to get your opinion on this issue.

Mad,high energy has its good and its bad side,the good side is that it's emotionally
stimulating,the other person's doing a lot of facial animations,moving around,
it's really entertaining to the viewer,on the other hand,because u do it,
u come across as reacting to others,as if ur trying to get other people to react to
you.What smart people do is their high energy is really compressed to tiny bits,
if u watch Mystery on his videos,he's still entertaining,but he uses his voice,
to emphasize points,to add depth to words,he uses his hand movements to
emphasizes the things he's saying as well and he also uses pauses,pauses
also make what u say more important,cause it feels like ur putting thought on
what ur saying instead of bursting out ur words.It's not bad being
high energy,it's bad when u do it jerkily,like with no purpose,just moving around,
over animating ur face,using too much hand movements,that's not cool,
cool guys have found their own ballance between being still and unreacting and
being entertaining and using their body to make their message more attractive

Alexander