I want to, as a goal. Walk into a club, and literally, be a super star. (These are my long term goals) I want those HB 9's and 10's pawning for me. The validation would be awesome for where I live at. But I also want to learn how to socially interact with people in general, better.

You know, you get that feeling, or thrill after you kiss some girl at the club, in the first night, or number close. Your wings, or your friends see it, and it's that "high five moment" that thrill of pride, for your abilities.

It's little moments like that, that made me pursue this, I'm a attractive guy. (I'm not tooting my own horn here, it's what many of the women I'm around say) I was just a bit socially awkward, until I stumbled across this community.

And I'm glad, I read The Game, and all of that. It's awesome to be able to go into a club, and do decent for a night, knowing I can get one or two girls, at least, and do a lot better then my friends.

i got fed up with not being in control.. so i said eff it.. i'm gonna take control or try till i cant anymore.

all started by a girl named kellyann, back in high school (08) i dated that girl i was a natural alpha male JROTC Prick who was at his top game i had girls throwing themselves to me but i just really like this one girl, i had a low self esteem thanks to my parents usual pushing down.

After high school and still dating that girl for almost 2 years she decided to cheat on me with my best friend (well i thought Best friend), that completely destroyed my S.E.

for a year i struggled making friends and keeping friends i was just going really low with depression, not only that but i had also gotten kicked out of home and had lost my job, i was just down right bad.

after a whole year i found an old friend of Kellyann name steph i started this really cool friendship and we agree to marry for certain legal issue problems i still have (immigration) well as we had our apt, she kept dating these idiots who treated her like shit and i was always the emotampon after a while of getting hurt since she wouldn't date me or anything i went back into depression and kellyann and her gotten back in contact which she hurt me again so i started joining a bike gang where a guy explained about the game and after three months boom here i was having those two all sprung on my nuts but i'm with better girls now LOL ; )

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"I'm not here to pleasure myself but to give this girls the best times of their lives is my only motivation" ----bikermello

btw add me on facebook i could use the friends to DHV
Lonewolf_Melo@yahoo.com

JROTCY noob.


Army Enlisted here, Engineers lead the way! Hooah!

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"He is in command of my actions and seems to
be the leader of the men." -The Secret Garden, Women Sexual Fantasies.

"“The best way to get the person you want is to not be afraid to lose them” ~Neil Strauss

My interest in psychology

It was this 17yr old chick a few years ago who I fell for. She was a headcase (I realise now) but I just played the nice guy until she cheated on me with her ex bf. I just couldn't understand why she would go back with a guy who physically hit her to the ground.

I thought something was really wrong with me so I googled to find more out about women. Came across this site I think and then "The Game" and it just all made so much sense.

I've only shared PUA with a few guys and they have absolutely loved it. It's so funny once you find out everything you were doing wrong. Life changing!

(cough)ScoutsOut19DFTW(cough)

I'm noticing a trend in a lot of these threads about why we ended up here where "control" is mentioned. It's a little troubling. To me, controlling any situation is merely a pleasant side effect of these methods. It's not the goal. This is probably why NLP strikes me as creepy.

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Only one thing could cure this: Dance Music.

this is going to sound rude but i joined for 2 simple reasons to get laid more and to attract a better quality of woman sadly before i joined i only used to get involved with girls that i thought that i deserved 3-4's now i hang around only 7 upwards

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life sucks and then you die! deal with it

I don't really know how I got into the community but I sure know why I continue to follow it.

I was always a nice guy, shit it seems such a cliche in this community but I was always a nice guy, I got my first girlfriend God knows how but I always sucked, I was always such a wuss around women that hurts me to think about it now.

I'm not in it to just pick up chicks, fuck them and don't call the next day (though it's not necessarily something I wouldn't do). I want to learn this skill to be able to attract women I actually enjoy and want to hang out with, I want to be able to attract that elusive special one when I meet her.

But most important, this community has inspired me to generally be better ma. I am a better man now and I sure as hell want to continue to improve.

Also, I now have a fuck buddy which is always nice

Get laid like a rockstar and see lots of pubic hair of course
Lol actually I saw Mysterys show while still in high school and it helped me out. I needed a boost because I went through depression, loneliness, and ADHD so socializing was really hard for me. But now I love that challenge. The harder I work the more stains in my sheets. Yay me!

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aiden k. baker

I got into pick up because i was shy, socially awkward, had not even had my first kiss and didnt wanna live through university the same way i went through highschool. I used the internet came across the game and then this community. I found that I have all the tools i just have so many rules and fears in my head that i have learned over the years to protect me they stopped me from being myself. I am currently taking away those layers one at a time and i can see improvement every day. In more aspects than i could have ever imagined. I started from just wanted to get a girl to a whole new reality.

~Exact

hey now i can't enlist for a certain reason but i'm trying and psh get it right RANGERS LEAD THE WAY HOOAH!!!! lol thats where i want to go and my goal Ordinance Green beret I'm at top shape just gotta wait lol

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"I'm not here to pleasure myself but to give this girls the best times of their lives is my only motivation" ----bikermello

btw add me on facebook i could use the friends to DHV
Lonewolf_Melo@yahoo.com

For me it was one-itis with every girl I befriended in some way. A friend of mine said that it was if I fell in love with any girl that smiled at me, and it was true. I was bad at talking to people in general because of school where I was in a social group that I sorta fell into cause I had nothing else. I was a very lone wolf sort of person and in many ways I still am.

But what really made me start this journey was after numorous attempts at trying I almost gave up, until I read the Game, I'm not sure how I found it other than I think I googled "How to Talk to Women."

After I read and loved that, I went and bought "Mystery Method: How to Pick Up Beautiful Women" and "The Pickup Artist" by Mystery, after a varying amount of success with those methods I got into RSD and The Pick Up Podcast which has got me looking into more and more stuff, now I'm getting all this, and it's inspired me to write a book, which I've always wanted to do (always wanted to be a writer btw) which is going to be all about the dating game in general and the different styles of dating and experiements within the dating scene. Hell, even if it doesn't get published or whatever, I still get enjoyment and fufillment from it.


So far, I'm loving life again!!!

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To Succeed You Have to Stop being Ordinary and Start being Legend...Wait For It....Dary!!!

If you do what you always did, you will get what you always got.

Live for the Moment, Never see a Chance you didn't take!

After broke up with an ex, i was lost. I went into a deep depression. I dump her but it effects me as she flips and gets angry and bitchy. She blame that i am loser etc. I am new here but here to stay. I am natural as well but was too depressed to sarg. Now i have new job with high status, new clothes, new look, new friends, positive attitude and this forum. I am ready to rumble!

Ex broke up with me. It wasn't even a bad breakup, it was pretty mature.

But, one of our talks before the breakup was about clubbing and how good some guys were ... and I happened to remember and brought up PUA.

And that's what I remembered while suffering, and that's where I turned.