| I wanna know what the best way to maintain a high energy state is, or rather sync into it when necessary. I mean you can't be high energy at all times. I feel like the times I am most interesting and my game is best is when I have a lot of energy, it is also when i have the most fun. However I cant quite pull it out at the right time always, sometimes I'll sync into it, but never willingly. Whats the best way to do this, we know PUA techs, rapport etc... all work better when you convey the right kind of energy, however this can be hard to do after a long day, or if you have been in your head too much, or if the group as a whole is kinda meh...
For example, i went out with some friends last night, it was me a buddy, his buddy, and two girls from work, one was Irish and the other French. Eventually we met up with the french girl's friends both of whom were also very attractive, so obviously i started to game them, now things went well, but i feel like could have done A LOT better. I wasn't energetic, and lacked a lot int the C&F department (another sticking point of mine i'll cover in a second). I got some IOIs from both girls, but in the end they both lost interest and it was mostly because i just wasnt into it that night, i couldnt sync with my inner PUA persay. Now all is not lost, I'm sure I'll have another chance to game these girls in the future.
Now i DID convey energy, while building rapport, but not enough, honestly when i look back and analyze what i did, i would say my game was standard, and a bit AFC, yeah i kino-ed and all, but overall it wasnt good enough. It wasnt good enough for a number or kclose, it was good for long term game. But thats it.
Now for my other sticking point. I have noticed that lately i have been lacking in the C&F department. I wanna improve, what are the best ways to be naturally C&F. I dont wanna go around using canned lines, they just feel too forced to me. I can build rapport and deep rapport very well, and I have no problems kinoing, and projecting a sexual nature, but that playful C&F is my weakest link. How can I improve? I know most of it has to do with your state of mind, and I know it coincides with having a high energy state. Thats why I asked these two together. I have done these before, but not exactly willingly, it just happened, I synced properly with my inner game and it played out well, but I have trouble syncing willingly at the right times, like last night.
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