In this Journal, I will be keeping track of my progress into The Game, and Seduction in general. I feel that as a newer PuA, and a little bit of a noob, I think this a wonderful idea for keeping ideas, and eyes on my progress, and to get the Input of fellow pickup artists alike.

So for my first missions(Not really missions, just what I will be doing in spare time.) , I will be finishing up on reading the 'Game' and reading 'Introducting NLP' I want to go to the basic sources, and prime sources on which Style learned.

Out of Field Missions-
First two books to read:
My Secret Garden
Introducing NLP.


I think that reading "My Secret Garden" will be an excellent choice for better understanding a woman's fantasies, and NLP to display a better level of communication between the HB, and myself.



Infield Missions for the Next Week/2 Weeks:
Approach and Open 50 Sets.
Hit the club on Friday night, once again, with newly equipped game.

I will be hitting up a local club known as the 'Savoy' It's great night game, and I want to work on getting my dance-floor game, a bit more solid in general, without opening a set and then going to dance with them.

As for the fifty sets, I still have approach anxiety, I don't care if I crash and burn, everyone needs to overcome this in the Pickup Community, in order to become a true PuA. My issue, is I get intimidated for fear of rejection, like most males, when opening a set. I've learned to cope with it somewhat, but I really want to get down on this, and overcome my anxiety on approach. Thus the mission. I want to get a friend out there, give him fifty bucks, and tell him to keep it for me until he's counted fifty sets approached.

I've encountered some successes with the club, but only with minor HB 6-7's, and I've been described as attractive by them, I know I have that going for me. But, I'm also going to work on getting my physically fit, and more well-tanned, being fresh out of Boot Camp, I'm already in decent shape. So I'm going to be doing more core-training with my abs.

All of this is for the next week, to months or so. I will be posting my in field progresses, and I hope for people to comment, and give suggestions to my progress.

Yours in the game,

PurpleLight.

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"He is in command of my actions and seems to
be the leader of the men." -The Secret Garden, Women Sexual Fantasies.

"“The best way to get the person you want is to not be afraid to lose them” ~Neil Strauss

In-Field Mission:

Woke up around 12. 30 Miles to where I normally go sarging, I got my pink button-up shirt, with my dog-tags hanging out. Time to go game. Being in the secluded area that I am, and the lack of coffee shops, and book stores, I decided Walmart wouldn't be a bad idea to go sarge, and make approaches, I made and opened about fifteen sets today, including a few Hired Guns, my first approach:

I was walking down the alley, and I saw a bigger HB3, and a HB7. Looked younger, at the pharmacy, college kids most likely, lets open 'em I thought, so I brought it in, with a smile on my face, and making eye contact. I came in on front, with a slight angle when I was talking to them. "Hey guys, you know any good night clubs around here, I just got back from The Army." They smiled, the HB 7 took charge. "Yeah, theres um the Savoy, and The Backdoor We might be going on Friday." Nice, I thought. I am too- Both of them had there eyes on me, with smiles on there faces, looking me over. The HB7 brought up her hand to her chest, an IOI. "Well, thanks guys. You guys ever heard of the Best Friend test?" They both looked at eachother smiling, and then looked back at me. "Question number one, is correct. You guys defientally spend a lot of time together." The HB7 responded, obiviously the leader of the set. "Wow, how did you know that?" I smiled. "You looked at eachother before responding, and made a lot of eye contact, pretty cool huh? That, or my telepathic abilities are really sky rocketing today." I said in a very joking tone, they both giggled.

"Well hey, next question, but I have to get to my friend after this." They nodded and smiled, I demonstrated value. "Do you guys use the same shampoo?" Again, with eye contact, they smiled and nodded, HB4 "Yeahh. We kinda have a strange relationship, but hey. Your hitting the Savoy up on Friday right?" I nodded and smiled, and then I pulled out my best wingman- my cell phone, as I have no wings, or fellow PuAs, around here. "Well, my friends are impatient, so I guess I'll see you guys there." It was a success, both of them had there eyes on me. I should have number closed with the 7, with a "Perhaps we can continue this conversation later or something?"

That was one of my more successful sets, I hit up a HB6 selling jewelery at Walmart, "Heyy, I need a female opinion on something." She looked up with a smile, seeing my eye contact, and laid back position leaning against the counter. "Yeah?" She said, her hand going to scratch her wrist- IOI.

"My mom I'm looking to get her a nice piece of jewelry for Christmas."

We went on for a few minutes, before I had to extract. Her eyes never left me, nor her smile, I saw two IOIS.

I crashed and burned on a few sets as well. I saw two HB 7-8's walking down an aile with there cart, going quick, they said. "Are you sure your alright?" To the other, I was behind them, I got paralleled to them, and looked over with a smile. "Of course she will!" I displayed too much energy, and they both looked at me oddly. I crashed and burned with that one.

In total, I hit fifteen sets today, and I feel somewhat more comfortable approaching girls, hopefully this will help me when I go do my night game on Friday evening, I invited some girls from all over the place that I met over a few years, to the club just to dance and have fun. Read the first chapter of My Secret Garden, and Introduction to NLP.

I feel a little bit more confident with these approaches I've made, I'm going to be working on my midgame with more natural conversation, I need implement more kino escalation, to my game.

But overall, not to bad for today, wish I number closed on that HB7.

Will post an update on Friday night, or Saturday on my night game.

Pea Cock Gear, this is me BTW:

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"He is in command of my actions and seems to
be the leader of the men." -The Secret Garden, Women Sexual Fantasies.

"“The best way to get the person you want is to not be afraid to lose them” ~Neil Strauss

I'd normally have my dog chains out, or something along with a few more rings on my fingers.

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"He is in command of my actions and seems to
be the leader of the men." -The Secret Garden, Women Sexual Fantasies.

"“The best way to get the person you want is to not be afraid to lose them” ~Neil Strauss

My ass got handed to me at the club on Friday Night. I went home a loser, and a sore one at that. My one year of pickup, off and on seemed to not matter, all my natural game, everything. I opened over 5-6 Sets at the Club, all my stuff failed, It just wasn't working, after the fifth set, I was hovering, and approach anxiety was coming to me, after failing all five sets in a row, it just wasn't like the last time I was at the club gaming. I decided Fuck. I'm an AFC now.

APuA to AFC in a single night, all my reading, and opening over the past year hadn't helped me a single bit, I felt like I got my ass HANDED to me.

Anyways, I'm taking a break for a month or two, I need to focus on school more, I'm going to be needing to revamp my game, I believe, because I don't even want to share how I failed on opening those sets- It just seemed like everything went wrong.

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"He is in command of my actions and seems to
be the leader of the men." -The Secret Garden, Women Sexual Fantasies.

"“The best way to get the person you want is to not be afraid to lose them” ~Neil Strauss

mate dont worry about that night out.

so you crashed and burned ? who gives a shit ? all part of of being a pua i being able to handle rejection.

weve all been there before and no ones gona think your a loser so i highly recommend you posting your failed sets. i went out the other night and this 2 set of hb10 and HB 8 just walked away from me whilst i was mid sentence and do you know what i did ? i fucking laughed my ass off and went to get a drink . it doesnt matter !!!

also are you going to the club on your own or with a group of friends ? it can really help having friends with you and personally i dont feel comfortable going to a club on my own .

finally ofcourse its important for you to concentrate on your school work but if your in town and see a HB dont use the " i need to concentrate on school " as an excuse . 3 second rule and get your ass in that set !

keep this blog running aswell man , it will help .

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Seize the day

Thanks for the encouragement man, It helped out, after a night of sleep I feel a little bit better about myself, and I anaylized what I did wrong using some NLP, tricks and all that.

First, I entered the club, and I was looking for a set, found one, pulled out, my phone, one of the girls in the set was watching me, A HB7, and a HB9, in the set with one AMOG. It was going to be a challenging first set, so I approached, smile on my face, and a confident stride. "Hey guys." I said in a confident tone over the music. "Can I ask you guys a question? DO you guys Believe in Magic Spells?" One of my openers, that has mild success, The HB 9 completely turned her body away from me, and the HB 7 Just completely turned her body to, I was froze out, as for the AMOG, he was busy drinking.
Next set.

Well, we all fuck up our sets sometimes lets open another. There was a HB 7, and HB 8, along with many other guys and girls on the dance floor, lets try some Dance Floor Game, I got into dance, and the two girls glared at me, when I went up to dance with me, and quickly moved away. I'm a decent dancer, I don't do any stupid shit.

Another set down. I'm sucking ass tonight.

I was beginning to hover around the club now, and I felt awkward, or was starting too. I haven't crashed and burned two times in a row, in a long time in this club. I used the magic spells opener, on three more sets, with mostly HB 6-8's in them, I stirred conversation, and demonstrated a little value, and social proof. But I ended up getting freezed out of all the sets, with the ladies turning or saying.

"I'm going to the bathroom." Or just completely ignoring me.

My voice was a little too energized I think, I'd become to cocky when it came to opening, and I needed to relax my body language, using NLP, I'd completely forgot that, I made a smile, and eye contact all through the night.

I crashed and burned, hard core that night.

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"He is in command of my actions and seems to
be the leader of the men." -The Secret Garden, Women Sexual Fantasies.

"“The best way to get the person you want is to not be afraid to lose them” ~Neil Strauss

no worries mate , thats what the communities here for , supporting a fellow puas lol.

ok good points

1) you approached sets even after getting gunned down. alot of guys take it personally and just let it ruin there night. dont be that guy .

2) youre approaching confidently , can i assume good eye contact and body language ?

3) seems like youve completely destroyed your AA . good for you .

now the stuff to improve , this is just my opinion and guessing from what youve told me

1) this is just me but i FUCKING HATE magic openers !!!!! their used far too much and most hot women have already heard of them ( perhaps this is why the HB 9 BUT NOT the HB7 turnt you down ? )

possibly try some situatuional openers or being more direct. although direct can be hard for a group most the time theres always one or two people in a group cur out so engage them first.

2) always make the amog your best friend. once he no longer sees you as a threat neither will the women.

lead the men , lead the women.

3) youve said you got freezed out a lot , have you been using false time restraints ? " i can only talk for a minute cause i need to go get back to my friends , theyll be missing me soon " i feel this might help as the women wont feel as though they are gona be stuck with you the entire night.

hope this has helped

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Seize the day

Hellz yeah it helped.

I reclaimed my title of PuA this night, while I don't feel like writing out the details, I made over 20 approaches, and opened sets around at bars, and clubs.

I did piss execellent, I had my pink overshirt on, unbottoned, with a black tie on it, I did execellent overall the night, and it boosted my confidence, ten fold.

I ended up leaving the clubs around 3:30 AM, with 8 girls numbers, and I kiss closed three of them, two of them on the dance club. HB 6's - to HB 8's I did decent, and it was an awesome night out.

I'm going next weekend, but the trouble is, I made out with someone's room mate, whose number I got also- It's a bit of a smaller city, and the only around for night life, and a small college, I don't want rumors of me being a man whore going around.

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"He is in command of my actions and seems to
be the leader of the men." -The Secret Garden, Women Sexual Fantasies.

"“The best way to get the person you want is to not be afraid to lose them” ~Neil Strauss

(Apologize if it's not- detailed, I made over thirty approaches of many different sets, and made a lot of successes, left with 3 more numbers as well.)

I fucking dominated the Club once more. I've been reading a lot about NLP, and everything. I was fairly well-peacocked, My game once again was solid for the a second night in a row, I ended up leaving the club with a HB 7, and a HB 6. spent about two hours with them, at the club going back and forth, I was displaying energy, confidence, walking the perimeter of the club, talking to any guy I saw, using my AMOG tactics, fist bumps, all of that.

Came back, ran The Cube, the Best Friends test, with much success, with the HB 7, she started playing with her hair, with a coy little smile on her face. I saw the IOIS. I looked over to the dance floor, a single girl was dancing alone. My throat was dry as well for talking so loudly doing the Cube, etc on the HB 7 and 6. The Six broke in. "Hey, I'll buy you something if you go dance with that one girl!" I smiled, and made eye contact with her. "Yeahh, so you can laugh at me for bein' all awkward!" I said over the K$Sha talking about takin' it all off. I went out, and I danced with the lone HB 7, for a while, and then said. "I have to get back to my friends." By using my cell phone, I do it quite often, I pointed to my cheek, and said "Kiss good bye!" And I got a kiss on the cheek, how special.

Went back to my set, I looked over to the Six. "Go get me my drink, right now!" She laughed. "Fine." Good. I got the seven alone. I made some sort of talk with the seven, making heavy eye contact, stopping the talk.

Kiss close.

Needless to say, I went back to her apartment, spent the night and went home this mourning around ten AM.

I think I'm close to finally earning my title as a pickup artist.

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"He is in command of my actions and seems to
be the leader of the men." -The Secret Garden, Women Sexual Fantasies.

"“The best way to get the person you want is to not be afraid to lose them” ~Neil Strauss

Reopening the books here, I haven't gamed in about 2-3 Months, I'm getting rusty, reviewed this tonight, as well as some of my other material, worked on my voice and pose, been sitting the basement too much. Tanned this week. Getting the tie, and sports coat on, going to go game tonight-
expect a field report tomorrow.

Hint:

I got my ass handed to me.

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"He is in command of my actions and seems to
be the leader of the men." -The Secret Garden, Women Sexual Fantasies.

"“The best way to get the person you want is to not be afraid to lose them” ~Neil Strauss

So, I decided to get my pea-cock gear on, and put on my best, I decided that It was finally time to go game- after a two-three month break- Damn, did I get rusty over that period; I went out to a few local night clubs around 20 miles away- Having lost 20 bucks in door charges, I lost some money for this, but I think I learned some lessons.


I thought I was over my Approach Anxiety, but that came back while I was out- I had some trouble opening sets, but I still did it, put a smile on and rolled with it, I tend to use Situational Openers. I went too a bar, first stop to ask where 'The Backdoor' was, I approach a set of three HB's 7,8, and finally, a 9. I never thought nines would be around here.

I tilted my body away from them slightly, kept my shoulders back, maintained eye contact, smiled. Basics, I still had. This set went fairly well, I put a false time constraint done, that I needed to catch up to my friends, they responded with smiles, and overall It was well done.

What I re-learned from this set:



Body language is important, don't appear to interested in the set, and pose if you are about to leave for the Initial Stages, It makes them more willing to respond. Also, false time constraints are key.

Sadly, I forgot this part later on in the night, I opened about ten sets, and It didn't go very well- but at the end; there was a set I thought I controlled.


Walking to the Backdoor, I saw a group of three HBS, Mostly 4-5's, but there was a seven. I thought this would be a easy group to establish. I made some sort of opener. "Heyy, this place packed in here?" One of them said my tie was adorable- I got that compliment a few times that night- but, I ignored it. I smiled and approached, the seven stated. "Wow.. you look familiar." I just shrugged. "Well I don't know, I don't remember seeing you around, stranger." They giggled- I was doing well with this set, I appealed to the group, and negged the seven, about forgetting names, calling me by a different name then I introduced myself as.


They invited me in to drink with them, and hang out. Bar was dead, but I did it anyways, I ran my cologne routine with a lot of success in the Group, but I was forgetting to lay down a time constraint. I was the center of the group, for a good four minutes, I saw two IOIS from the Seven, holding her ear, moving close to my neck, when she talked over the music.


I thought I was incharge- heh, I got played. The seven made a comment, and moved to the dance floor- as If challenging me. I took the challenge, I went out danced with her, she didn't make much body contact, I moved a hand to her waist mid-dance, she moved back, we continued to dance.

Almost towards the end, she just walked off, we were the only ones dancing, leaving my standing stupid in the dance floor. I knew what it was, and It was to display control over me. I had been played, and now I look like I Idiot. I pulled my phone out, and extracted the fuck out of there.

I learned something.

Just because you are the center of attention for awhile, and It's going well- dosen't mean you should get over-confident, or think you are in.

I think the lessons learned that night, and going out to game again was worth the money spent. I crashed and burned, but I learned a few lessons. [/b]

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"He is in command of my actions and seems to
be the leader of the men." -The Secret Garden, Women Sexual Fantasies.

"“The best way to get the person you want is to not be afraid to lose them” ~Neil Strauss