hey guys. can anyone help me try and work out what a girls trance words are?

and maybe an example of how best use them?

would you just try and put in an embedded command or use it when your trying to make her imagine things?

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someones personal trance word is a word that they will use a lot to describe something try and go for a positive one but use it casually dont over use it as she'll catch you out and more importantly it'll sound strange that you keep using it use it once or twice at the most! for an example lets say 'lovely' is her trance word, try something along the lines of:

'you know what would be a great idea if i were to take you out to the 'beach' (for example) imagine the scenery.. the sun, the sand, the water it would be lovely what would you say?'

if you analyse that statement 'if i were to' is a 'weasal phrase' as per ross jeffries really this is a hypothetical so if she did say no its not like your asking her its just in theory, then i actually say imagine so she will have no choice but to imagine it i describe the scenery in detail she uses her modalities, then i use her trance word and finally 'what would you say?' really if you think about that its not really a question its a statement.. in the film indecent proposal robert redford says to woody harrelson 'suppose i were to offer you one million dollars for one night with your wife what would you say?' really hes not asking a question hes making a statement as if to say its going to happen

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thanks a lot dude. will listen out for her trance words and then try and develop a wee phrase to use wi it!

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"Man is free; yet we must not suppose that he is at liberty to do everything he pleases, for he becomes a slave the moment he allows his actions to be ruled by passion. "
- Giacomo Casanova

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I like the weasel phrase "You know when you......" As you set a presupposition frame that the thing you are about to mention has actually occurred in the past, then when you slip in your embedded suggestion use her favourite trance adjective before the suggestion then her favourite trance verb on the end of it, this help stealth the whole package through better as you are "speaking her language".

some of the canned trance words/phrases are:

instantly
suddenly
find yourself
realize
imagine
suppose
allow yourself
convince yourself
picture
remember
ponder

The way to use these trance words is to liberally sprinkle them in patterns. Listen to Dave Riker's Language Course and he goes over trance words in depth.

If you're first starting to use Speed Seduction, then I would not recommend your first goal to be looking out for people's trance words.

I would recommend memorizing a few canned pattern and rehearsing them with the correct tonality. Be sure to mark out the embedded commands. You do this, by pausing, and downward shifting your tonality during the embedded command. Then, you go out and use them.

But, that's just my opinion. If you want to go straight to practicing attaining their trance words, then do the vacation question from the "Easy to use NLP" thread. Then, when you have them describe it to you, look for certain words that they emphasize. This is not easy to do at first! You're going to have to keep practicing. Also, right before she answers your question, she should do something Ross calls a "body anchor". This is defined as a nonverbal cue to herself to access a deeper level of her mind to answer the question.

This is where you can really do some sneaky shit! For example, if she looks up right before she answers your questions. Then, every time you are describing something positive, you point up towards where she looked at. This is stacking anchors. If she looks to the left right before she accesses the answer, then stand to her left as you get her to describe her fantasy vacation to you.

what do you mean with trance words for women. Are there any trance words specifically for a girl, or do trancewords work the same way for both men and women?