rite guys here's the story. been seeing a girl for a few weeks now, been out on a few dates with her, and shes been round at my house and we've been lying in bed together. just all kissing at the minute, but that's fine by me, as id like to turn this into a relationship.
its safe to say she's fairly keen on me, as she's been texting me on nights out, and has come back to mine after the couple of dates we had.

so texting her again 2nite and I've told her to keep Wednesday free. as this will be like the 5th time ive properly met her, excluding all the texting we've been doing, should i make the move and test the water and see if shes up for a relationship?

p.s shes been sorta teasing me about not being very romantic - (took her to see jackass, lol, but sure im paying, so il see what i want, haha) anyway, basically what im saying is im in half a mind do something fairly romantic (very gay i know, but has to be done). Any ideas??

nobody any ideas?

surely some of you boys must have been through similar when trying to get things moving forward.

also, this could be the last time I see her before the Christmas hols, so want to do something memorable

Well, I like going to restaurants, but since it will be one of your first times with this girl I suggest you don't go do an expensive restaurant. I would choose something cheap like a Chinese restaurant but with all the fancy politeness like a waiter coming to get your order and stuff like that.

Oh and don't make it sound like you've planned a romantic dinner. Else she probably thinks you're paying as well. Just ask her: did you planned somewhere to eat tonight else we can grab a meal at "Chinese restaurant's name"... or I don't feel like cooking tonight, if you want you can join me, I'm going to "Chinese restaurant's name"...

After dinner I always go to a lounge bar or somewhere cosy and get my dessert or coffee there, not in restaurant. Just to change venue and so I can continue the romantic conversation in an even more romantic environment.

A future idea might be: going out for a weekend (city-trip) but this is more for people who are already into a relationship.

ZACK

PS: I you know any fun activities to do with a girl please tell me cause I can only think of clichés like movie, going out, ... maybe I'll start a topic of my own.

To be completely honest SuperMan, don't suggest a relationship. If she you likes, just keep doing what your doing, and I promise you she will bring it up.

Samex

cheers for the input guys, appreciate it.

@zack89 I've already taken her out a few times, and I feel were pretty comfortable in each others company. also, I'm trying to move away from the concept of always throwing money at her, not that I'm a tight arse or anything, lol, just that I don't want to always be taking her out somewhere - if you's get what i mean.

anyway, I've an idea in my head, which should hopefully be pretty sweet. got an opinion of a girl I work with and got the thumbs up for it - so fingers crossed she doesn't get freaked out by it haha