I don;t know any one whos willing to be my wing O_O, they take all of this as ajoke, cause they got girls from college :/, so I get left out.

I do talk to women when I see the opertunity, or I even build oppertunitys, for example the hottest girl in my media class, came to me and talked to me, and I did the cube on her best freind, and then latter her when she begge me, I associated a bit of kino, but couldn't go all out because her best freind cosistantly kept butting in, and I couldn't isolate her 'cause her best freind is with her all the time these days :/

Thanks man , I'm touched xD, is anyone willing to help me get this girl in college?, I think If i'm with her I am able to understand more things about women O_O, I can't tell if shes atracted to me 'cause she's around guys all the time and I mean, alot of guys, and they all want her aswell O_O, she told me she was a virgin tho about a month ago, yesterday she put on her facebook "I think I love you" but it was probaly a joke :/. So anyone help?

i first had sex at 15, jimmy carr first had sex at 26.

Pu is abut more than sex. Its whole aim is to better lives. Get other shit in your life sorted out first. I'm 16 and trust me, sex is only a big deal until you have it. Then its just decorations on the tree.

It will come- be it tomorrow or next year, just remember- the harder you work, the luckier you get.

i didnt get laid til i was 19 i suffer from love-shyness so that was difficult enough for me

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supmag where you from ?

Manchester. Racial wise south aisa, more specific? India.

dont do anything rash dude. you can get thru this rough patch. think everyone felt like this at some point or other in ther teens. for me it was when i was 16 and my first gf who i had been with for a year, lost our virginity together and that, dumped me. so many nights i lay awake thinkin bout killing myself. i was fucked up for bout a year and even being with other girls didnt help but life does get better. from comin out of the otherside of it till now (im 24) has been a blast. the teenage years are the worste of your life m8, your best years are 18-35 i reckon.

if you want help with game then let me know! pm me. would be happy to make someones teen years a little easier. will do all i can to help. i dont really follow a particular train of thought on game. i take things from all the books i read and ude them where i see fit. its what everyone should do. you trial stuff in field a few times and she what suits YOUR personality. we are not robots.

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- Giacomo Casanova

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jus another wee thought.....

take up a blood sport- boxing/kickboxing cos it puts you in a total alpha male frame, gives you more confidence and gives you a focus. helped my life out big time! helped me respect myself and it flips an attraction switch for girls too! i do thai boxing (muay thai as seen in van dammes kickboxer) and love it. helps expand your social circle too. win win win win

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"Man is free; yet we must not suppose that he is at liberty to do everything he pleases, for he becomes a slave the moment he allows his actions to be ruled by passion. "
- Giacomo Casanova

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You're fucking 16 and you're fucking concerned about being a fucking virgin?

What the fucking fuck is wrong with this fucking world? Get the fuck off this site and do your homework. Go to school every day and play with your dog or something. Come back when you finish high school, learn to spell shit correctly, get into college, and meet more people.

What the fuck is wrong with you, i'm in fucking college, and i am not concered about being a virgin, I'm concernd about not being able to aproach.

16 you say? , that is the perfect age to start, If I cant build up the confidence in the next to years uni is going to be shit.

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stop wining supmag and take action, like a movie director. you posted this on every section known to man and every person known to man has given you advice. If youre not willing to actually do any outergame stuff at least do some innergame.

If you cant meditate a little and journal then go see a psychiatrist or, more likely, youre lazy and are a massive attention seeker. im betting the latter.

These posts are good, written by good members on here, so dont be quick to disregard it like you did with little panda's college game. watch a james bond film (sean connery of course). oh and you have to put effort into this stuff unlike what you think. Whatever you put into this world, you'll only get about 1% back, so you have to put quite a fucking lot in if you want money, hoes and clothes.

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"You don't want girls to think you suck dick at fucking pussy"
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Yeah Man Dont!

Dont hurt yourself over it I just lost my virginity in ....? um....fuck...September...I was 21...seriously its embarrassing as fuck to say that to all these guys here with us. But anything to keep someone from hurting themselves.

And what your feeling is normal. I highly recommend any usage of self hypnosis to boost your confidence. And its beating a dead horse but practice makes perfect SO GET OUT THERE SLUGGER! ~Slaps ass~

And above all else remember this....Theres two kinds of guys lurking in these forums...

The ones who started it to help us

And us other 95% that need and want the help to grow as PUA or just to get laid man!

I skimmed through very quickly, so if this has already been stated and someone bitches at me for it, then fuck you it's important.

If you are considering suicide, the ONLY advice anyone here should be giving you is to see PROFESSIONAL HELP. Seriously, trust me dude, it may seem like the exact opposite of anything remotely helpful, however I will personally attest it will almost ALWAYS be more helpful then a half-baked post on a message board.

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Now that said, here's my 2cents:

If you feel that at 16 being a virgin is abnormal... step back for a minute and look at the bigger picture. While at your particular school, sex may be common, I know of others where the 16 year old who's had sex is the social outcast...

Regardless if you like the man or not, look at Mystery, arguably the most famous MPUA ever, lost his virginity at age 21... He was a solid 4-5 years older than you...

Girls will not fix your thoughts of suicide, which is why I started this post as I did. Even if there are NOT any deeper underlying issues, simply knowing that this is true has the potential to help more than you can imagine.

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You can choose to do what you wish with my advice... scoff, heed, or ignore it as you wish, you ask for advice, and even though I hate absolutes, in this instance I will say this is the absolute best advice you will get here on this topic.

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Hey brother, Ive been in your mental position before, obviously a different situation but i will share my experience. I attempted not long ago. I was stopped by the police who busted in my house and beat me down (wasnt going without a fight). I spent 72hrs in the hospital strapped to a bed. I only remember 5 of those hours. I have moved on since. Depression takes a long time to heal, but you need to figure out wether youre feeling depression or sadness, there is quite a difference. One being a chemical inbalance and the latter being an emotion.

As for your AA, well you gotta put girls on the back burner for a bit. Take some time for your, meditiate it helps. Spend your time on this forum in the inner game section.

Take care of yourself and pm me if you feel the need.

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Its a joke, chill...

Your true strength shows when you are at your weakest and how you deal with it .

First thing its been nearly 2 months from you posting this my guess is you've moved past that stage or your dead

second point , youve got it easy compared to what ive been through and ive been there before but for legitimate reasons

I had cystic acne ( don't know what it is google that shit and be horrified ) for nearly a year . at one point i locked myself into my bedroom for 3-4 months with little human contact. To make it better i was put on a drug that would treat my skin condition which had side effects of depression and suicide. So yeah imagine being depressed and then getting medicine with side effects of extreme depression.

After i regained the confidence to go out and face the public i had to rebuild my social skills in a totally new environment.

After the cycstic acne left Ive been left with scars on my face , i still have them now and they may still be there for the rest of my life .

Yet I try never to let this hold me back and i always proceed to move forwards in life

All Im saying is , ive had it worse but this isnt a competition the thing is , is how you deal with these situations and how you look at them and how you move forward from them .

If i could do it so can you