:/ I would if I could , no wings in college :/, can't afford that coach thing either.

He's right. There are many people who are much older than you and have zero experience with women, so don't feel bad. Also, I hope you're not serious about taking your own life. If so, please reconsider. Basically, you're saying that you fear approaching women more than death. Here is the way I look at it, if you feel that low in life to where you have to end it, you might as well go for broke and just approach every woman you desire. What's the worst that can happen? If she laughs at you, who the hell cares? Everyone gets rejected, even the best of them. Anyone who says they never get rejected is a liar. If you end your life, it's over. It's a permanent solution to a temporary problem. We all get approach anxiety. I get it really bad too, but I refuse to give up. You're only 16 and have time to improve, but the time to start is now. Just stay encouraged.

Get out of your comfortzone!
You mentioned earlier you could only talk to them if its a 1on1 conversation...
What happens when your out with a group of friends meeting a different groups of people? if your just standing there not talking while other are... thats your problem, because your not presenting to anybody that you are a friendly, social person. they think you have problems going on and you dont wanna talk about it so theyll leave you the fuk alone. Next time you see someone just say hi, have the intention in your head your just being friendly nothing more

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Three Types of Players:
1) Those who doesn't know whats happening
2) Those who watch what happens
3) Those who make it happen

Oh don't be mistaken, I don't have any and I mean any aproach anxiety talking to new pwople when I'm in a group, But I have it when I talk to a women who is in a group and I am on my own.

Ive only been doing this for a coupla months and my major point was pubs and just standing there trying to work up the bottle to talk to women id spotted, then failing and then going home fucking destroyed.
Then I thought why dont i try the newbie hi mission but in a pub crawl instead?
so i went to all the different pubs and got a short and just fucking said hi to everyone walking round the pub and not standing still and EVERYONE was receptive, said hi and was friendly!
One group of 2 girls and 2 guys looked at me funny afterwards cause i stopped and watched their game but i just said 'just being sosciable' and then they laughed and carried on.
Trick is to keep moving and if a convo hits off- great if not just keep walking and saying hi to everyone , then once youve done that move on to another location. It was a really good confidence boost. Went home chuffed!(and a bit pissed).

whats your problem with groups of women?
After last night I know how to approach now, some guy cam up trying to game my sisters friend and I tired Cockblocking him but I didnt break his frame, he could have fooled me as a PU but his body language was way off and he kept leaning in so I just figured he was AFC

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Three Types of Players:
1) Those who doesn't know whats happening
2) Those who watch what happens
3) Those who make it happen

I got laid first time at age 20, study the material and think positive, you´ll get what you want.

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Expose yourself to your deepest fear; after that, fear has no power, and the fear of freedom shrinks and vanishes. You are free. - Jim Morrison

You got ONE shot at life. There are people in third world countries starving to death , people living in poverty with no food to eat, homeless people on the street struggling to get by, wasting away.

And heres you in working class society with food and internet and friends and family and you want to throw all that away? You have been given the gift of life!!! You got ONE shot!! don't throw that away.

I'm not I won't, I can't

Cause now i love my life , now if its gonna go is when I run out of stamina when I'm having sex.

haha good to hear, on the bright side you don't have one-itis right now. oneitis blows big time, that's what i'm going through a really bad breakup thing, thoughts of suicide come and go but then i hop on here and realize all the problems are bullshit and start trying to improve, i'd wager this is my 2nd post too hah, just trying to get the nerve to get out there again and start living, start socializing, and making friends.

don't let a situation hold you down, did that for the last few months and just have become a recluse and lost contact with old friends, it's time for a change in a positive direction, the hardest part is getting over that hill of depression you feel but once i'm over that i think it should be much smoother, much more life-motivated sailing.

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looking for change

Don't listen to these people telling you you're young and so it's no big deal. When I was 16 I loved sex, had it a lot, it's great fun, and so is spending time with girls. Just go out and talk to girls, start by talking about shit they like. Vampires, Glee, whatever girls your age like (I'm kinda clueless in that age group) but just do it.

Once you start getting girls a lot of those negative emotions will take care of themselves and you'll be better for it. There is no better time to start than now.

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Even the most naturally gifted can learn to become better.

I know there trying to make me feel beter , at this age if you have everything you need it's the best life you can have but if you don't have what you want at this age then you're pretty much gonna suffer from what I have and do every now and then.

everyone had tough teenage years and to be honest i thought about finishing myself off on more then one occasion, this is going to sound horrible but its true: theres always gonna be someone worse off then you and they're surviving. i dont mean to sound patronising but have you talked to anyone about the way you feel, you may be suffering from depression

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life sucks and then you die! deal with it

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Supmag, Just chill out.

do this; take a step back from life. Laugh at your situation. Laugh, then laugh some more. Its funny. In my college most people in my lessons think im weird, still get that fucking eye contact of the women but i dont do lesson game. stay away from that all together. relationship in a lesson? this isnt Friends.

so on another thread you realised you shouldnt TRY and be funny to get people to like you. ideally you want to be, being funny so you make yourself laugh. People will find you funny, if you find yourself funny. Last night a random guy said he was in a place with everything made of marbel, so i said "marbelous", i found that shit funny. Everybody actually laughed.

Take a step back from your life and just laugh at it all. your improving yourself and you said those people who dont like you are gone next year, anotyher 6months and theyre gone. youve got 80years to live. who gives a fuck what they think.

Just chill with people, dont react to what they have to say so much so theyll like you and know your listening. from all your posts it sounds like you dont care about women so much, more you just want to know your normal (by having friends).

want a tip on talking to people in general? Be real with them. try and keep conversations rolling, just dont be weird or try and be funny. If anything just talk about your day and what youve got to get done, mention something you were thinking ("how do they build buildings so big? stuff like that amazes me"). your view on a subject or area.

A good way to make friends where you're the 'centre of attraction', as you said, is by saying something about yourself and this gives people a chance to build rapport with you;

example:

you: ah i love how winters make me get all snuggley by the fireplace and cozey with a reason to be lazy (hardy har)

her/him/it: oh yeah man, i love that. I like how the streets are so quiet and it has that slow christmas day feel.

you: yeah i cant wait till christmas, i love christmas nothing better than everyone being happy and lots of food. i like cheese

her/him/it: no way, same, i prefer making people happy than getting presents for myself (okay this is a girl responce most likely)

you: wow, youre great. not just a pretty face after all. come sit down over here. my legs are aching from standing and talking. (definitely never say this to a guy unless youre gay or hes gay and youre doing gay-flirt)

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i learnt the talking about yourself, theyll interact thing from working in a cornershop. It got me to be social. go get a job or something.

Oh and be a positive guy, dont talk to people about anything negative/depressing for anything more than 30seconds, unless its important (which it very rarely is), No one wants to talk to a negative person.

Empathise with people, if a girl is talking about her opinion/view or a story, feel it from her shoes.

NOW GO GET'EM TIGER RAAWWRRRR

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"You don't want girls to think you suck dick at fucking pussy"
-Seth (Superbad)