So whats the deal with this? Match tells you who has view your profile.

Two situations occur.

I look at a girls profile, she looks at mine, I write a message to her, she looks at my profile- no response, (I figure she isn't interested) a few days later she looks at my profile again- still no response.

I look at a girls profile and write a message, she looks at mine- no response, a few days later she looks at my profile again- still no response.

I guess they are pretty similar situations.

But what is the deal with this? I am sure these girls are getting sent messages all the time by a lot of guys, so are mine getting lost in the shuffle? I am hesitant to send another message, but they keep looking at mine and not responding to my original message.

Well what kind of messages are you sending them?

I think I send pretty basic intro messages.

I comment on something in their profile and then ask a question based on what I saw.

Sometimes I say something about myself.

This obv. isn't working so if anyone has some good first messages let me know.

I read somewhere a great little technique for when a girl checks out your profile but doesn't say anything. It sounds pretty cheasy but i have got some great responses and it gets her to write back about 7 out of 10 times no joke

"you must be shy to check out my profile and not say hi, I dont bite ".

Give it a shot

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This does work a lot...

Also, I read that if they're not a paying member, they can't read your message, they get an e-mail stating they have a message, and must pay the membership fee to read it

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are we talking about match dot come ?