Yes I also think that you should ejaculate once a day on average. As for performance anxiety I find it helps if you use penis enlargement pills which are basically a natural form of viagra. These pill don't make your penis bigger like the name implies, but they do make it much easier to get an erection.

I was reading FHM the other day and they had a segment about the most successful celebrities and advice on what they do in certain situations with women. The best one was with Shia Lebouf(Sam from the Transformers films) heres what he said:

Confidence is King - For some reason the first time I had sex I was trying to portray myself as a man who had done this many times before. I didn't tell the girl I was a Virgin, I was all "Don't worry babe. I'm gonna handle it tonight" all the time I was shaking in my boots.


He's right, act like this is nothing to you like you've done it before and it'll be so much easier for you. hell, I convinced myself I wasn't a Virgin the 1st time, I just kept telling myself I'd done this loads of times.

Good Luck.

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I think back in the day I used to self sabotage any opportunity of getting laid because of a deep seated fear of not being good at it. My key character flaw as I see it is that I dont like to try new things incase I under perform, the crazy thing is im generally known to be good at everything I do ONCE I start yet I still have this issue - how nuts is that? So when blatant opportunities would come up I would talk myself out of it or subconsciously cockblock myself or pretend it didnt then later on get angry at myself for missing an opportunity.

It may seem like a big fucking deal, but i'll echo everyone else on here with after the first time I was thinking - was THAT what all the fuss was about fuck me im a total idiot for worrying.

My best advice as an ex anxiety of cocksize/performance/satisfaction issues type of virgin, is look your nine times out of ten are not gonna be able to pound her for 15mins+ the first time, even with an extra thick condom... unless you have no real attraction for her because she looks like the stunt double for fiona from shrek 3, in which case yes you will probably last alot longer than expected lol.

But yeah my advice is this - get good at oral and spend ALOT of time doing it, I can happily spend 2 hours exploring every facet of a womens body and mind!, just make sure they have an absolute fuckload of orgasms from oral and they wont give a shit. If you can make them squirt all the better, search for squirting on redtube.com there is a great guide to how to get them to do it, most actually can it just takes some persistence and trust.

I like to give them multiple orgasms from oral and then bring them to the point were they just plateau and quiver repeatedly from going down on them and fingering etc. Couple of weeks ago I had one saying it was unnatural to have this many orgasms in one night, she became so super sensitive that afterwards when I slowly breathed on her tits and belly it set her off on another one, had me laughing my arse off.

You can also do kegels etc and practice at becoming neo-tantric - allowing you to control your orgasms and becoming multiorgasmic (which is awesome btw) even if you understand the theory it will help you in the sack!

You can't fail, only learn. Just go for it!,, and so what if she finds out?. By the time that happens you'll be having sex with her lol.