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I've been reading your thread and blog for sometime now, so I've been here almost everyday for the last week or so just combing through all this to reap your valuable knowledge. I want to say thank you so much for your glorious insight into social interactions, body language, relationships, and what I need to do to become a better person.
I think the great thing about what it is that you're doing here is that you're also giving me advice on how to become a better person IN ADDITION to how I can be more savvy with the ladies. You've literally changed everything about my game from how I smile to the way I walk and I must say the results are super positive. I'm much more confident with women now AND confident in myself.
What's even more impressive is that you've done an amazing job describing BL with only your words and experiences. I think I speak on behalf of the entire PUA community when I say that a video outlining Your Approach would be SUPER HELPFUL. This way people can actually see how someone with a lot of experience with Natural Game uses the tactics to make approaches, closes, etc.
Once again, you're unbelievable for putting up this information. I used a more PUA style approach before finding your thread (canned openers, card board approaches, etc) but I think you've shown me my true calling: NATURAL GAME. Thank you for revealing the world of Natural Game to me, because I'd literally be sunk without it. I think about this thread everyday along with your advice on Natural Game , because it makes the "better me" shine brighter.
Keep Rockin' Dude. You have a major supporter of your blog, thread and video right here.
John
Thanks for the serious amount of love. I truly appreciate it.
Yeah, I am definitely a subscriber of the policy of improving yourself. Not to many of these guys seem to put that at the top of the list, kind of upsetting. I am also a big fan of making people feel good(compliment over neg), not to many of the people believe in it, I do.
When it comes to approaching it is as simple as walking up and saying "hi, my name is...." (in fact it is such a confident gesture to do it like this) or compliment their style(apparel, jewelry, etc.), make an observation. The content of the statements is far less important than the body language involved(humor is an obvious plus to start), you are literally just trying to talk, it doesn't matter what about initially. I don't have a set plan or know how I do anything, if I want to talk someone I shouldn't need an excuse, just talk to them.
I am at the point where I got an idea of a person's mood just by looking at them, so I can comment at that, identify with them, etc. I just kind of go with the flow(you'd know what I meant if we met). I roll with confident non-threatening body language in a very relaxed matter. I just kind of meet people, not necessarily just women. When you know more than a few people in the bar, both guys and girls you gain a social proof, oh everyone knows that guys he is bla bla, he is a cool cat.
Keep in mind it is just natural, you aren't planning anything. I can't film me doing something, you have to be you so it can be natural. What is within the character of my realm is much different than what is in the character of your realm and vice versa. If your a goofy person be a goofy person, if you are direct person be direct, just be yourself. Just make sure your non-threatening and make people feel good, and you will always be liked/loved.
What I do in an approach will undoubtedly be different than what you do. I think everyone should be able to just walk up and say Hi and introduce themselves. I like to say "Hi, I just felt obligated to introduce myself, I am bla bla", this is a charming line and it does take a bit of confidence. Just walk up and say how's it going, I have works fine.
Emphasis on These Signs Being Everywhere
I have seen all of these happen to me. Even more importantly I have seen them happen every where to everyone, don't glorify these stories as if they are different from reality because they are just a part of reality. I just want to emphasize these are everyday signs. I can go to a shopping mall and spot it. Go to a grocery store, book store, clothing, etc.
As far as my personal experiences these aren't just things that happen to me. This isn't just my experiences, these stories are sometimes friends, family, me, as well as complete strangers. I try and show you guys multiple perspectives, when I am involved, third person, or complete stranger. These are things YOU see all the time, now you just are finding out what you should notice. I have these stories happen in front around me and to me all the time, so do you.
Sorry I just know some people out there think oh well that never happens around me, because it does it is what I see every day. Some people will ignore the signs saying that never happens, it always happens. I could write something every day if I went to a decent enough environment and had the time.
CHAT
) and a kiss. 