Hi

how do i stop chasing girls ?
i hate chasing and chasing....chasing ...., its like a loop! and i knw its not the way togo...

ever happened to you when someone rejects u , or doesnt show much instrest? it makes u want to chase them even harder..and the more u chase the worse u feel ! and the less chance of succeeding!
i knw its all bad, but how do i quit this habbit? is it about mind control ?

i give myself a set date on when to never text/phone again...

I figured on friday some girls trying to play hard to get, i text her sunday (yesterday) and i might phone or facebook her this wednesday... if no reply from my wednesday call or text or whatever then ill just not text her again and let her come to me if she likes me

If you really do like the girl then you might want to try 3 times or 4 but i think if on the 3rd she ignores if then shes either not interested in you or finds you too needy or whatever

thank you! sounds familiar ! i do have similar standards too. i always said either 5 set of girls at a time or no girls! cuz if there is only one then its easy for her to realize that im needy ... thanks for refreshing my mind i guess i knw where im going wrong now!

i also try not to accept facebook friendship request within first 3days.


I knw that not being able to stick to standard ruins everything but still cant avoid it! its like a bad habbit for me!

any more tips on how to resist the inner feeling of wanting to chase and hit on girls more than 1,2,3... times?
i also hate being on facebook chat most of the times! its just sign of desperation is nit ? how can i resist all this?

why would you wait 3 days to accept a friendship request? thats stupid.Your seriously thinking too much about everything...I accept a friend on fb as soon as i notice it if i like the person....accept the hb nd get gaming ffs...

Like seansmc said it doesnt really matter how long you take to accept it but i think your trying to show that you have a life ither than accepting straight away? But i wouldnt worry about that cos most people have facebook on their phones now so its ok, everyone reads into stuff too much at the start so dont worry about it much im still trying to not read into things too much as well
Not sure its just your principles and pride that your holding, if you do make a needy fool out of yourself and you meet one of her girlfriends and you game her she might tell her friends about you and then your game is ruined on that chick too, just keep your boundaries and pride and if shes not replying to 3 of your calls/texts you should get the hint (i tend to do 1/2 phone and 1 facebook message

i hate the facebook chat to so i only ever go on it like once a month, if people want to talk to me they can text me, facebook wall/message me or just wait till i come online.. simple