Been talking to this girl on POF for a while. She seems really cool and down to earth. We went back and forth with the "where would you go with a full tank of gas and a free day?" routine and she kept asking me questions so I took those as IOI's. Then after 3-4 days of not talking I sent her a message and told her I was going to close my account on POF soon due to all the "Weird messages i'm getting from girsl" and did she want to text? She responded: "sure my number is xxx xxx xxxx" ... I read it last night and then sent her a text this morning "Hey xxx! This is Daquix from POF" and she hasn't responded in the 3 hours since I sent it.

My question is, how long do you wait for her to respond. And if she doesn't, what do you do? Seems like she wouldn't just give me her number if she wasn't interested.

You're totally over reacting Daquix.

Few hours is standard.

If she's intrested or attracted,she will reply.

But she has to build tension.

Women do this to us men often,they purposely not reply in a long while just to make the guy wonder and to see if you'd over committ by re texting.

She's sought of testing you to see how congruent & strong you are-or weak(lol).

If you re-text her now before she replys,you're virtually disqulifying yourself.

So you gotta be strong/alpha and play it cool like James Bond(lol).

She's a girl,and HB's get many texts,so there's a strong chance that yor text got lost with her many.

So in that case,give it until evening(6 hrs.from now)to re-text.

Dont retext her with,"Hi it's Daquix again,did u get my text"?

Text her as if you'd known her for ages.

Damn,what were you even thinking by sending the 1st text saying this' Daquix?

Leave her wondering and guessing to who it is.

So never say your name,but tell a quick-interesting thing related to the chat yall had on POF.

It's like call-back humor by David Deangelo but do it via text.

Example:"How funny that I decided to eat Chinese tonight(lol)".

So if yall had poken about Chinese food,send a text msg relative to that,which would then regrister to her who you are.

So no need to put your name.If she's into you,she'll remember.

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I should have mentioned that I wasn't worried at this point, just wondering at what point do you start to worry!

But all awesome info. Thanks a bunch. I told her my name in the first text because every other girl I leave wondering always responds "Who is this?" and it sounds like they're a bit annoyed. Perhaps i'm reading that wrong though?

At what point do you worry?

Well,I know this sounds like PUA clich¨¦,but you should never worry.

At least dont make her know that you care whether she replies or not.

But I've never read anything in the community stating when you should worry,and I dont have a clue personally when.

As I'd said,I would re-text her few hours from now,totally not mentioning 1st text.

After that,text her the next day.

If she doesnt reply within next 3 days,It might be dead.

But whats your intentions with her?

That's key.

Are you trying to date this girl,lay her,have an LTR(relationship),just get to know her?

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A relationship. She's very much my type. She's responded by the way and we've continued the "where should we go" game but Its starting to get old and I'm trying to figure out a good transition into a new topic.

Hey Daquix,dont milk the topic man!!!

You have to phase shift of she'll get bored.

Well U know that already.

It should'nt be hard to transition;just change the subject.

Not by asking AFC'ish quetions.

But start throwing some DHV stories(via texts).

Technically,you should be transitioning to phone game.

Get her on the phone ASAP.

You cannot build sufficient attraction via text since she cannot sense how congruent you are.

We guys tend to rely too much on texting bcause we're too scared to actually call.

The longer you engage in texting,the more uncomfortable yall will feel when it get to phone.

Anyway,tell her some things interesting about you(via txt).

Tell her how yo met a girl from POF who turned out to be a stalker who tried running you over for not answering your phone.

If you're not comfortable making up things,then you'd have to find something intresting about you and add a little flavor to it(lol).

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Awesome stuff man. I really appreciate your help. The stuff you're saying sounds so simple when I read it, but I can't understand why I didn't think of it first when i'm talking to a chick lol.

It may seem awkward to phase shift at 1st.

You may even think you're crazy for changing the pace(topic)so rapidly but it's cool.

It's your job to attract her,and at this point,the only way to attract is by interesting stories.

And plz try get her on the phone in a brief convo'.

You cannot set up a meet solely via text.

Text is for confirmations & reminders but not for setting up meets,etc.

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Ok, i'm going to try and get her on the phone tomorrow (well today, by the time you probably read this ha). She is definitely into it. She uses A LOT of smilies in her texts and she is very flirtatious. I told her a story about this kid I saved his life a few years ago (true story). But that's the only story I've told so far. But I have a few questions:

1. From what I've gathered so far, she seems very much like one of those cute, bubbly, innocent girls. Which I am very attracted to, but is there a different way to go after a girl like that?

2. Should I text her asking if she wants to talk on the phone, or just call her?

3. Should I definitely ask her for a meet-up Day1 at the end of the first phone convo?

4. Should stories always have a positive ending?

Try text as she does,meaning,if she uses lot of smiles,lol,haha's,you should use them a lot also which will build comfort,rapport a familiarity.
It's like mirroring her via text,which's key.

When it comes to her flirting via text,be careful to not take the bait completely.

I've read many online articles by gurus who say that the guy should totally go direct when the girl flirts.

That maybe true in person but via text,there's no way you can lay this girl,so why raise her buying temperature getting her fucking horny when it wont lead to anything?

So when she flirts in text,bust on her a bit with a some-what flirty neg.

For the bubbly/giggly type,I find that you can go more direct opposed to a sophisticated type.

So you have to match her tone and be bubly or bublier(lol).

I find that just calling out of the blue will catch the girl off guard which always lead to a flat-awkward convo'.

So bait her into wanting you to call:"Im so tempted to call you but we're so much alike,I know we're gonna argue".

Most cases whe I uses the above,the girl would reply,"why would we argue?No just call,I want to hear you".

Threfore when you do call,she will be expecting it & anxious for it.

Just calling out the blue,being that she's bubbly shy,she wont answer.

Meet-ups:I usually fluff talk for about 2 minutes over course of 3 convos',then I bait her into a meet(after 3rd.convo').

"Hey,Im going to a caf¨¦ for usual cup of...so,join me".

Thats how you should frame it.Never ask if she wants to.Tell her to meet you there.

And do it on the phone,not via text.

When you get there,send her a text(confirmation)saying,"Hey Im sitting next to a girl who looks like you(lol).I think you have a twin".

If she doesnt come-cool.Flaking is almost a most.

Just keep doing that over the course of the week;she'll eventually come.

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Ouch! I used the line about being afraid to call because we will probably argue and it did not work lol. She replied "Were going to argue?"

'Cause it was incomplete.

When she replied,"We'd argue"?

You should've fed off that by saying yall are too much alike and you may try dominate the chat.

You e the prob' with texting is that the target cannot feel where you're coming from and you probably subcommunicated it wrong,rather than playfull with smileys.

It takes time & calibration to get this.

When I first started out,I fumbled all this many times until it finally clicked.

Your 1st convo will be flat,awkward & boring until you get it.

Before calling(if you didnt call yet),I'd learned from online gurus the best way to pump your state.

So before calling the girl you're anxious about,1st call someone you're comfortble with: guy friend,ex-,brother,whtever.

Then directly after,call the target while you're in that excited,hyper confident tone.

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'Cause it was incomplete.

When she replied,"We'd argue"?

You should've fed off that by saying yall are too much alike and you may try dominate the chat.

You e the prob' with texting is that the target cannot feel where you're coming from and you probably subcommunicated it wrong,rather than playfull with smileys.

It takes time & calibration to get this.

When I first started out,I fumbled all this many times until it finally clicked.

Your 1st convo will be flat,awkward & boring until you get it.

Before calling(if you didnt call yet),I'd learned from online gurus the best way to pump your state.

So before calling the girl you're anxious about,1st call someone you're comfortble with: guy friend,ex-,brother,whtever.

Then directly after,call the target while you're in that excited,hyper confident tone.

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Good stuff.

Well here's my update.

I called her and we chatted for a few minutes, and I asked her at the end
to go out with me on Saturday and she said that she had to work. Then I said Friday and she said she had promised to go to a party with a friend. So
at first I thought she was blowing me off but she did sound sad about it
and she texted me twice after apologizing for not being available those days.

So a couple hours pass and she texts me and says that she's trying to get out of
the party. So I text her back:

"Hey if you wanna go to the party you totally should go. I'm not the kind
of guy to play games or try to make you feel bad. I'll always be honest
with you, and if you wanna go I honestly think you should go. We'll
have plenty of time to go on a date."

She responded with: "Thank you you're sweet" and then I said "no prob"

What do you think of that response??? I don't know how to judge her response at all.

I think there should be a PUA book about texting. It's so incredibly confusing for me. I can hold my own in real life, but texting is a completely different game.

There re manu PUA book & e#ooks on text game.

I think Magic Bullets have a text or phone game e-book.

The guys at the art of charm/pick up podcast has a text-game e-booklet,plus free text game podcast that I'd downloaded last month.

Wow,you've made major progerss.

I have no critique with you phone game;nice that you kept it brief.

But this what I would do when it comes to the party on Friday:I'd go.

Why not go Daquix?

Go to the party man!!

She's baiting you into going but you havent bit.

Suggest going to the party.

You have a major shot there to progress.

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