hey guys.....
wondered if any1 could give me some advice on gaming a lapdancer?
going out in couple of wks with a group of mates to couple of strip clubs in edinburgh for a friends bday an think it might be fun to try an take a dncer or at least her number home, reckon it might be difficult tho seein as there bound to get hit on left, right and centre. all iv come up with so far is not to buy a dance cos it labels u as bein jus another punter and puts u at lower value than her....

any help greatly apprieciatted
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this is how you do it. continue to go to the strip club, always tip really good the strip dancer you like, stay there with her and talk to her. you will spend some money on her in exchange for trust and a possible friendship. If she likes your personality she'll give you a chance. If you go out with her treat her nice with respect, don't expect or ask for anything but if you can drill her that night don't loose the chance. Go back to the club and continue to be friends with her. If she ask stupid pay another stripper for a lap dance to get her jealous

Whatever you do, absolutely do not listen to this guy. He has no idea what he's talking about.

I don't have time to straighten this out right now. If you want to, search blondguy's posts, he recently talked about gaming strippers.

bahahahahaha elito wtf???? elito it sounds like you're the one whos been getting gamed by strippers lmfao... im pretty sure you're supposed to game them not let them game you hahahahaha sped...

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Holy shit thats some bad advice, I suggest you read the part in Mystery's book "The Pick Up Artist" where he tells the story of Matador picking up a stripper, it'll give you some ideas at the very least. I can't give much advice personaly as I've never even tried to pick a lapdancer up, not yet anyway

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Elito was either trying to construct a very poor joke, or just fails as a PUA. Not sure which.

Anyway, I haven't ever been to a strip club so unfortunately I cannot give advice beyond theory. I believe the THEORY states that you need to break their frame. They are in the frame of dancing for money. If I was in the situation, I would probably wait for one to come offer you a dance, and tell her 'to be honest I'm just here for a mates party... I aint really into these places."

Hook them... think of something like: 'But whilst your here,.....' before going into an opinion or observational opener.

Actually, thats all I am gonna go into because I dont know much more about the subject. You're on your own here, go look for some threads on the topic.

Good luck, and hopefully post a decent FR on here, would love to read it =]