Tried it, failed miserably. Read deleted

yea i agree, my results with this line have been terrible. One girl responded with "well you're definitely a 10 just for asking me that" I replied jokingly, and still no response back.

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you should probably make sure your profile is witty, funny, sarcastic..

should match your msgs......


hey enjoi.. where abouts in TO you at?

im in Sauga. You ever go out? or strictly onliner?

Once you get a reply on POF you need to turn it into a conversation.

Go through her profile and pick something she is interested in and make a comment, ask a question, something that will make her write back. Everytime she logs on she is seeing all these new messages from new "suitors". There will be other guys she is conversing with. You need her to be interested enough to open your latest message - and get to the point where you ask for that first date.

Remember - she is on that site to find a date - she has logged on at that time to find a date. If it's Wed night she is prob looking for a date for that weekend - Friday night maybe. You have to sell yourself so out of all the guys who have messaged her YOU are the guy she picks.

Good luck!


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Another funny opener I've had success with is as follows:
Look at her profile, if she lists alot of hobbies or things she likes say:

In subject "Interest 1 + Interest 2 = Life "
(Where interest 1 & 2 could be related to you)

Msg:

" You + Me = ...?

I guess I'll start to solve this complex equation. My name's ______, how about you?"

or something along those lines, maybe tease her a little.

Try it out!

great post

I just tried this and got this response:

"Not a good opener at all............get a better line. I'm not in your scale range."

So I replied:
"Well I thought I was being cute and funny But I guess I was just cute."

Now I am second guessing myself. Thinking I could of came up with a better response. Oh well. See what happens.

lol she used the term opener?????!

she probably knows about this shit a bit.... meaning she may even know the "guess i was just being cute" retort...
hahah....



guys realize that its ONLINE dating.. HALF the pretty girls on there have NO intentions of EVER meeting you or anyone... they literally go on there to get attention. As much as they say "dont msg me saying im hot wanna hook up" its al they are on there for. getting that validation that they are hot and sexy and ppl want to fuk them. They get off on shutting you down.

so keep that in mind.. some of them DO want to meet but are so fed up with the shit they get from people they are naturally snobs... thats where this opener is good cuz it calls them on it. but they need to have a sense of humour and your profile needs to match the sarcastic nature of the opener...

otherwise if your profile is too serious you're going to come off as an asshole..

for all the people getting responses and not getting blocked.. whtehter using this oepenr or any... and the response is something along the lines of

"try harder.." or "you're an asshole" or whatever....

when you reply to THAT... be straight up....

might be good to put a question about her profile... "so you're into snowboarding eh.... i love it.. have you actually ever been? or you one of those girls that just likes it and SAYS they're into it? lol"

so she has something to answer you with.

well the problem is that you saying that is a statement... whats her reply to? you expect her to take the initiative now? her response in her mind if she doesnt know THAT line.. might be "whatever *delete*"

follow it up with something like i just posted and let it go... if she responds then good. otherwise.. girls know how tough it is for guys to be "different" on sites like this.... she shouldnt be so harsh.. ive used this opener a lot and had good responses.... mostly good. but i add things at the bottom too... a comment or two (friendly) about her prof....

Yeah your right about making just a statement. There's nothing for her to reply to. Yeah I got a read and deleted and an unread and deleted. All my messages are deleted. I'm temped to reply that she was actually on the scale. But
I'll let it go.

I actually like this opener. It's the first time i got a response and so instantaneous. To bad it didn't lead anywhere.

Also something I figured out is the girl can put that line in Google and it will lead straight here. If they are smart enough then game over.

Good observation on that last point.... hopefully you don't use the same username there as you do here


also that opener may not fit your personality... try something less aggressive...

I have a lot of success on that site... from one nighters to sometimers to relationshop wanters... i dont use it THAT much but like i have a 50% response hook up rate.... i get read and no reply a lot.. not deleted.. i honestly know a lot of girls just dont have time to reply so they like you and wait til they have time but get flooded and forget....sometimes i get favourited but still no reply...

but the key is this...

CATCHY subject line.... say somethin dumb.. i dont wanna give away all of mine cuz then they wont work....if it gets saturated.. but for instance... "hi." doesnt work....

subject.... " wow you totally look like the type that air guitars! "

then tell her that would be so cool cuz only fun people admit to air guitaring.... then do you play any instruments? you look fun and cute.... maybe you'd be intersting to meet. I lke that you like *************" .. how long you been doing that?

or you look like the type that has a tatoo somewhere... that mommy doesnt know about yet... where is it and whats the story?


something to reply to but its fun... draw conclusions about her not insulting ones... but stuff she can answer and if youre right. bonus.. otherwise "no i dont but i always wanted to get a tattoo..."

etc..

subject is key.. make it stupid/funny/unique.... make the rest of the subject the first line in the body...

"love the giant hoop earrings in that last pic id sooo....."

body: "reach for those if I stumbled when i was drunk! got any other piercings?"



subject ... "omg so when is the last time you...."

body ... "....stepped into a big puddle in the winter and got a soaker... did that magically jsut stop happening or is it cuz once you're outta school you just dont walk around enough puddles to have it happen."



some girls will think youre dumb. some will think its great.. some wont reply.. some will... be unique and you'll get replies.. be funny and sarcastic after that and go for the number at the end of the second msg if youre doing well or third if your doing ok...too much onlining and you may just kill it....

my examples were kinda lame and i dont use any of those but you can figure it out on your own... i hope.

Original Message YOU sent on 12/2/2010 3:20:48 PM
.....how much of a snob are you? 1 being very touchy feely extra friendly.... and 10 being......well "unread deleted"

haha



erm a snob is a posh person!

got this any ideas how to reply ????

forget posts often?
tell us how its working for you

bump for this still working! Woo!