K everything is going well... then all of a sudden i get a curve ball. Read from the bottom up. Any suggestions would be awesome!!!

***bottom up***


Nope, i will do nothing of the sort.

I will just guess that you were just all talk.

So thats okay too.

but it would have been interesting....





Hmm... who is to say you have earned them?
My creepy messages are in high demand.
Tell me 3 reasons i should send you one.

Then i'll think about it




I dont have an IM. Im not really on the computer long enough to do that.. but if you talk to me on here, ill be getting back to you! and you can send those creepy messages, lol. lets see what you've got.



I like your take on things. We should talk some more thou. Do you have IM. Let me get your screenname. I promise I'll only send you creepy inappropriate messages 9 times per day.




same answer... and not really because i like girls too...



....Okay, let me ask you this. Take the same scenario, but this time the girl is making out with another girl, and lets say she does this almost every time she goes out. Would you consider that cheating?




It depends on the agreement between the girl friend and boyfriend.. take for example, me and my old man... well, we have agreed that if something like that happens and we dont lie about it, then its okay as long as we are honest and respectful of the others feelings.



I was just curious. Don't worry it looks nice. While I have your attention, I need a females prespective on something. Say, this guy is dating this girl, and she goes out with her friends, has a few drinks and ends of making out with a random guy at the bar. Would you consider this cheating?




are you serious? Thats my read hair... and thats not a very nice comment.


Are you wearing a wig...
or is that your real hair?

-Mikey

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She's trying to get you to qualify yourself to her, don't do it.

I am new so I am not sure how you would accomplish it online, but it appears that she's putting up the bitch shield and you gotta disarm her.

Any of the MPUAs have a take on this, because I am slightly interested.

it sounds like shes playing with you... play back

Okay... well i said:


Now how do you expect a guy to weed through all the crazy girls on here?

How do i know your not a guy?
Anywho, if your not down to play the game your prob not worth my time.

-Mikey



And.. Ugh she said:


probably not.. so i guess you should stop trying.


Hmm... Of course i don't want to but i have backed my self into a corner now.

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I think the problem is that you didn't throw many negs in your posts. On the second post I always add a neg to the beginning of the post. It always makes them try to gain my respect and they will write back with more detailed messages.

And its not ill send you creepy messages its I wont send you creepy messages. Opener is to open not to keep going on about it. If you said I wont then you could of changed the topic.

So basically all you can do is throw a neg and and imply she doesn't know what shes missing. And all you wanted to do is to get to know her.

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you cant really neg online, especially while sending emails through myspace

you can try and it may work with an IM, but you arent getting instant reactions with email, so you are going to either keep talking and DHV or move on

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What I say when I see her is what I'll say.

u sounded like a sniviling lil wuss right here u completely telegraphed your intentions---not to say u didn't do it prior in the email but this one just dug a hole this was not a neg but an utterly pointless question

Again another pointless neg make's u look even more uncool of course she's a girl then u tell her she's not worth ur time....ah another telegraph interest statement. at this point you've lost it

She's thinking OK what a scrub


Hmm... Of course i don't want to but i have backed my self into a corner now.[/quote]

First you need to clearly specify who's say what in your wall post it got confusing as to who was talking towards the end of the original post.
You asked for ther IM way too soon. U showed her empty interest by saying u like her take on things ---she did nothing worth being interested in. Yes she answered the question but she never asked u any question she gave no IOI's back----- You never disqualified yourself in that email exchange
Example of an myspace disqualifier
after her initial response to your opener u should had replied, "Good I got a response that's all I wanted I can Un add as a friend u now LOL "
she should respond to that afterwards u can just go ahead with ur opinion question.
Further continuing the converstation with girl is probably not going to go in your favor since you've already displayed an needy aggressive attitude.
I dont see any real interest on her part u talked way too much unnecessarily.

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Purity what u did was equalivalent to asking for a girl's number after just 1 min into a convo online game takes a bit long to get a girl comfortable. in the converstation I didn't see any IOI's from her seems u were overly interested in her like SouthernCross said u needed to disqualify yourself, asking for her IM like that was just beyond rookie. An her responses to your questions weren't nothing to jump about either. I'm certain she gets tons of messages a day from guys trying to hit on her. Nothin' is more annyoning that some guy i have zero attraction for asking me for my IM or phone number "I don't want to talk to you!"

This is looking like a One sided conversation meaning-- You're doing all the questioning. She' not really giving much to the interaction and u shouldn't expect much from her at this point--due to ur excessive pointless negging.

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So u think you can handle this?

you have to neg for the second message sent to her or she probably not going to respond back.

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You guys are right on a lot of things, I followed that myspace method thing for the most part the until the end where i tried to manage, it didn't work but it was my first real time myspace sarging and didn't know what i was in for. Got a lot to learn about the online deal guys. It's so different.


Mike -- 0
Random ass myspace girl -- 1

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It is the nature of desire not to be satisfied, and most men live only for the gratification of it.

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