Well title says it all really. Long story short i work with her and we flirt all the time. I got her number and she agreed to hang out some time. Now she mentioned her boyfriend to me once. I asked her what she did that day and she said went here there blah and boy friends house. SO i played it like no big deal. Later on we were chatting again and i was just goofing around and brought up Nsync. So i say something along the lines of "wow thank god for your boyfriend"and she goes "whys that" and i respnd with if not id pick you up and wed go around town blasting Nsync in my car and id get tons of tickets for disturbing the peace by backstreeting boy loving cops with a smile. I know its really lame but i was on the spot and she laughed hard and told me that would be amazing. Not sure if i screwed myself here. Now i think she knows im interested, im not sure if shes interested dating wise and only sees me as a friend. She always responds well to the flirting and is constantly smiling and laughing when we work together. So my question is there any chance to this or should i move on. It would make my confidence shoot through the roof if i could pull this off , not to mention shes real attractive. Thanks for the comments about how to take it from here, im new to shit PUA stuff .

Help me out with this situation guys,

Make sure you give yourself DHV and keep her interested also. DHV her b/f by finding his weaknesses and your strong points will make you more valuable. If shes going this far wit you with giving her number and all I would say she is def into you but, she might not know how to get out of her old relationship. This is especially true if she has been with him for a long time. Just keep it too the point when you are with her. Dont hang around too long because then you get into the dreaded "lets just be Friends" zone.

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Tommy "Gunz"

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I've read the mystery method, twice. The game and watched 5, one hour long vidoes of mystery teaching a class to AFC's. Also read a shitload of posts on here and i have a well establishment of approaching and where to carry it from there. My name really means nothing. Ive had girlfriends in the past also so. YEah i just wanted to see if you guys thought i was looking into it too much and just general idea cause usually i dont bother with girls if they got a bf but hey why not give this a shot. Yeah i know nothing about her relationship and yeah i told her we should hang out sometime and we exchanged numbers. I;m not sure if i should actually set up a "date" hopefully she doesnt see me as just a friend to hang out with. thanks for advice so far more is appreciated.

I had the same problem sadly and there are really two options go for a boyfriend destroyer route depending on how long this relationship has lasted or take the less assertive route and out play the guy. Show a quality that he lacks and get involved make her know you not afraid of the competition beware though this is friendzone territory you do not want to stay there. Be her call to twalk guy but aways adopt a flirting attitude of sorts you want her to know you interested. Test the waters and see if she lets you get away with things kisses and kino by in large. investigate and ready urself make her boy friend look like an obstacle between you and her and that he must be put on a leash. Get close and go for it Im not gonna lie 8/10 times it fails but then again if you cant wedge urself in then it isnt worth it.

well i really dont want to barge in for the kiss yet i mean we havent hung out out of work yet so i know its way too early. and not sure if shes attracted so i dont want to kiss her cause i dont feel like getting slapped. Yeah i tried a vriation of a BF destroyer (check first post) kinda trying to make it look like her Bf is stopping her from having a great time hangin out with me.

Ya I get what you saying just again dont fall into the friend zone bud. The kiss is a make or break event so dont risk it are you still after her? dont forget other options

Yeah i understand talkin with plenty of other girls. I just figured i might as well try this on the side as well.

haha i get it whoo her remeber i said i was having the same problem well its sorting itself out at first i ignored the fact she had a boyfriend now i use it against her tease her with it tell her its what keeps her from me making myself look like the idol she doesne mention him anymore bt still has some loyal tendencies but im working on it.

hey guys.. but what if she has a boyfriend but she's never told u about him... or even mention his name... i have a problem like that.. with a girl... she is like 8 months with her BF and i was out of the country like a year almost but when i'll be back there i wanna get her... =S also im kind of in a LJBF zone... i know i was a AFC before but now i know how 2 build atraction and conford and even seduction i guess.. but i'm not so confident about the BF destroyer thing... so any advice..?

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"bymyself"

U might still be an AFC??? stop focusing on other guys girlfriends get ur own sounds like u got a oneitis with a girl who was never even yours to begin with

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So u think you can handle this?

do a little more... then you will done enough for her to realize its her turn to invest in the relation ship... i currently am at the smae point in a relationship as you are, and if she is not willing to invest or too stupid to figure it out, see ya.

lol, who are you telling to do a little more? "bymyself" or "highschoolAFC"?

read up on a couple boyfriend destroyers, DHV and disqualify her... she may not even have a boyfriend...

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