Greetings fellows! Im not so sure if this topic is to be argued here but okay.. u let me know in your replies please. Well to give you an introduction: I went from being totally shy in my teenage years (meaning that I would not dare to talk to any girl nor to approach her) to having built a lets say good level of confidence at the moment of doing so. The main reason for this post is that tho I have become a decent approacher and I feel I have gotten many girls atracted to me, I cannot escalate things any further with these girls and therefore most of them end up in the damn friend zone.

Lets say Im in a 1 to 1 normal conversation at any given place. This is where I get stuck on, from that point I want to build up things but I seemingly don't know how to.
Any suggests??

Besides myself introduction this is my 2nd post please if u need me to be more specific about things Ill be willing to be so.
Thanks fellow members

Staying out of the friend zone is tricky to do with ONLY verbals.

What you must start doing is calibrated kino escalation shortly into your conversations. Use push pull (2 steps forward, 1 back) on innocent areas (shoulder, elbow) and if you get positive response (IOIs) you can move into kino of more sensitive areas such as low back or hair.

Escalation = non verbals

Im new to these terms and things , but having read the main topic of what they are about, mostly more physical contact. But should this be followed along with some changes in the way you talk? what u talk about? all in all verbal things?
Thanks for the reply

It really doesn't matter what you talk about.

Although I do love to use cocky funny to build attraction (check out David Deangelo if you haven't, do it) and facilitate positive reactions to my physical escalation.

The most important thing is HOW you say the things that you say. You need to exude energy and confidence. Slow down your movements and speech, and insert pauses - things like that.