Just number closed...

This girl seems very open about fuck buddies, which is what I am aiming for. She gave me her number with no problem at all, after a lot of flirtatious teasing when her friend revealed that she gave the best blow jobs in the country.

The problem is, I have messed up this stage many times before. how do I progress without ruining it all. I feel like I should text her and let her know when I'm going to be out in town again (small town)and then follow from there.... Advice anyone?

Just send her a text saying something along the lines of 'Hey, it's , I was planning on being in town wednesday for a couple days. Want to {Grab a bite, get together, etc}. Really that's the easy part, you don't have much to stress about.

Still learning myself, so if anyone disagrees I hope they'll give feedback

I think trying to set up some sort of hang out with the girl before you leave town is ideal. However, I`m not sure if the lunch date would be the best way to go. Don`t treat a fuck buddy like a girlfriend. Invite her to your house to chill. She already let you know that she is a slut, so let her get down to business.

I'm considering inviting her out with me and my friends (we roll in a group girls and guys) should i send her a text like "hey it's me from last night, my buddies and I are heading out for a drink on friday and i was wondering if you'd like to join us" does this seem like a plausible next step? i've always been alright at getting numbers I just tend to fall at the day 2 hurdle.

1. Send a funny text with no expectation of a response. If you were joking with her about something, bring it up, if you gave her nickname, use it (if not give her one that makes sense). For example "hey freckles, I still got glitter on my face from the other night...you naughty girl " If you can't think of anything, at least just "omg the most random thing happened" or something. Don't say "it's me from that place" of course she remembers you, you're the fucking MAN.

2. Wait for her to respond. Then wait at least 2x as long as it took her to get back to you

3. Send her the invite "hey me and my friends are gonna check out bar XYZ it's gonna be a lot of fun, you should come join us...if you can slam tequila shots like a pro " DON'T say "would you like to / if you can / please / come" TELL her to come.

Since it's a FB situation, stray away from date-like situations such as dinner/movie in case you give off the wrong impression. Give off that flirty, playful, but sexual vibe with banter and kino, and then find a time later when you can isolate, extract and close.

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cheers man, that's some sound advice.

So we're on the same page here, FB = call, fuck, part, repeat. As explained above, forget dinner, movie, group settings, etc. The fact that you think she'd be a good FB after only a #C seems a bit odd anyway. Usually, that comes out after the FC when she says something like "We simply must do this again."

With that in mind, I'd be a bit more direct in my text. If you actually teased her about giving good BJs, why not allude to that and ask her to prove it up? If she's actually interested that sends the right message and cuts all the crap. Sounds harsh, but by definition, your interaction with a FB is limited to sex.

yea its just a number haha but have fun with her, keep sexual framing about how good she does bj's if you ask her out oversell it, always oversell everything but yourself, overselling is important because of the emotion it packs.
Remember, the best speakers are the ones who can
stir emotions. If you can get a woman feeling a wide
range of emotions, she’ll feel attracted to you. overselling must be used as a tactic and at the right time.
So when you go to her town and wanna meet her up but she doesnt agree, then tell her you understand agree then oversell anyway


You meet her during the daytime and ask her to accompany you on some
activity (e.g., go shopping, get coffee)

Her: “I would, but I should really get home. I have a lot to do.”
 Oversell: “That’s cool. I know what that’s like. But seriously,
this coffee shop is amazing, it’s a little underground place
called Starbucks. They have these gifts from God called
Frappachinos—if we don’t have one together, it’ll be
something we’ll regret for the rest of our lives.”

some good advice there

i donno how old you are or what your home situation is like....

but yea... id go with a chesey, funny, sexual text to start with......

like "so i did some research and your friend was almost right.. you're THIRD in the country... ironically I've dated the second. Not the first tho.. you wouldnt happen to know HER wouldya... intro me! haha"

then wait for her response.... if she gives you another joke or pun or something to go on .. do it.... then be like

"haha.. ur fun, so you're coming over this week for rockband, sex and icecream. you can pick ANY day you want, as long as it's Fri or Sunday... Saturday i have a date with "one in the country " haha"

just invite her over to your house... dont meet her out somewhere... you have the potential to change it into a different dynamic.. like FRIENDS or "this guy wants me...meh" or does he want a gf? why are we talking so much?"

if you get her to come over and have it set up... and need help with what to do night of....post again..

best blow jobs in the country huh... gimmie her number ill find out for ya

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