I tried that, I just feel really hesitant saying hi to them, I look at them and smile, and most of the time there not even looking my way O_O

when you say "hi" they look over and return the greeting some wont but the more you do it the more confidence you get which means more women respond

remember youre scared to say hi, so maybe they are too or just thinking and not paying much attention to the outside world.

add Hi fives and hand shakes when you get better at it

peace and love

Shah

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"You don't want girls to think you suck dick at fucking pussy"
-Seth (Superbad)

I did the say "Hi" thing to women in malls and stores. My first time out it took me 2 hours to make myself say hi to 5 girls. But the more I did it the easier it got. Now saying hi is no big deal.

***This is somewhat long but I recommend you read it***

Just read this topic. Ill post some general advice because you sound like my 16 year-old self. Im now 22. Lost my virginity at 20, I never even approached a girl until I was like 19, Ive had sex many times since then.

Basically, DONT WORRY ABOUT IT. Seriousely, I was completely depressed when I was 16, I had been wanting a gf ever since I started to find them intersting, at like 13. Just be patient, time solves everything, of course you shouldnt just sit about, take active steps but keep in (and I know this is hard to realize at your age) that the teenage male mind is a complete mess. You are experiencing emotions that you cant control and that are probably a lot stronger then in most other people, in your case the strongest ones would seem to be the desire for sex the the approach anxiety you have.

This is pretty much the problem that I had. My approach anxiety was so bad that I didnt even have any friends in high school because I was afraid to talk to people because I thought they would judge me. I am now probably the most popular guy I know and am usually surrounded by girls (and guys) at parties etc.

My advice is improve yourself as much as you can and dont focus on girls too much. I actually discovered PU only about 2 months ago and the only reason im on here is because I wanna game 10s, I solved most of my problems on my own. I did this with 2 simple strategies;

1. BE PATIENT, in the next couple of years your hormones will calm down and allow you to take a more cool-headed approach to situations

2. IMPROVE YOURSELF. I mainly focused on exercise since I was kind of fat in high school, but this goes with every aspect of life. I dont know how your grades, etc are but this is definitely one area you could improve. Also, exercise improves your mood, its subconscious. And take up a hobby, something you can be good at. I did hip-hop dancing, I definitely recommend dancing of any kind, which ever you find interesting. It imporves confindence and is a great place to meet girls. However, dont go for that reason, just go to have fun. After a while you will start to feel a lot better about yourself and A LOT more confident.

Basically, dont just focus on girls, there are other aspects of life and improving them will help you get girls in the long run.

Did someone say something immature? I wouldn't think like that as it sets a frame and mindset that distances you from other people and in turn may actually increase your AA.

people on here are trying to help too.

its not very mature to contemplate suicide because you can't approach 2+sets.

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"You don't want girls to think you suck dick at fucking pussy"
-Seth (Superbad)

True, I aproach alot of people, I talk to anyone it's just girls, Maybe because I can't conntrol my harmons right now, I feel deep emotion for girls if there is a hot girl around I just randomly change personality, I have been told by my freinds, and now I am considerd "wierd" to the college girls O_O.

I hang out with emo/goths, My music type is metal/rock.

If you want I can post a picture of me up?

[quote="supmag"]True, I aproach alot of people, I talk to anyone it's just girls, Maybe because I can't conntrol my harmons right now, I feel deep emotion for girls if there is a hot girl around I just randomly change personality, I have been told by my freinds, and now I am considerd "wierd" to the college girls O_O.[quote]

Best way to get over the anxiety you experience when talking to girls is to do it over and over again, eventually you will desensatize yourself to it.

[quote="supmag"]I hang out with emo/goths, My music type is metal/rock.[quote]

In escence it is not your style of dress or interests that might make you wierd but how you present yourself. For example, there is nothing wrong with wearing black, painting your fingernails black or having piercings (I apologize to anyone who maybe offended if my stereotypical impression of goths is wrong) or liking metal music as long as you act the part and you are both confident and well groomed. By that I mean make sure you look good, ie. be clean, have a nice trimmed haicut and beard if you are old enought to grow one. Make sure your clothes are clean, and that they fit you well (going to the gym really helps with this).

Its hard to give very specific advice without actually seeing you but look at some of the goth/emo people who have hot gfs and copy them. Even celebrities that might go for that style. You dont have to post your picture (I think you need to find your own style) but it might help some of the more experinced members give you specific advice. I would definitely give you my opinion.

It works in reverse as well. I personally find that there are a lot of attractive goth/emo looking girls even thought I do not dress that way or find that music even remotely interesting. However, there are also a lot of them that I would find wierd. Just be confident I guess.

Goths tend to be very inwards and negative about the world just what the style is really- you need to get out of your head(not literally) and saying hi makes you more in the moment and alive and not so worried and anxious in my opinion- people are only as scary as you make them in general there is a few exceptions but just say fuck it ile try it and youll be amazed really i think

dfg

By the way this is how I dress when I go to college/when I go out etc.

Dude there is nothing wrong with way you look. I personally dont see the goth/emo influences either but whatever. What you are wearing is something I would also wear so trust me that it is good. I cant tell from your photo what your personal hygiene is like but make sure you shower, brush your teeth, change underwear and sock, etc. This is a no brainer but you wouldnt believe some of the shit Ive seen.

Wear cologne. NOT too strongly. I recommend you buy soemthing you like and spray a bit on your finger then rub it on you neck or something, especially when going out. Just dont overdo it, you shouldnt be able to smell it 5 meters away, only when a girl get really close. If feel like most guys screw this up somehow. Also ask the girls in the department store to help you pick one out, this a great way to start a conversation with them as well. There is a whole thread on this particular topic, search it if you are interested.

Just work on you game and you should be fine. Also check the section of inner game out because it seems to me like you could use more confidence. Also, like I said before I recommend that you take up some kind of sport or go to the gym. Even though I dont think there is nothing wrong with your physique, the act of trying to improve your body will make you more confident because you WILL notice a difference. IMO, one can always improve their body regardless of what they look like.

I do boxing if that helps O_O, so yh thats my dress code , I mostly wear black trench coatss, all of them are slim fit xD, I have longer hair now aswell.

Wow, you are good looking and good dressing. You're only 16. Not a lot of the guys did have sex on that age...

A bit wierd hearing that from a guy xD but thanks alot man that gives me confidence.

You have time on your side man, plus if u go to college your sorted, find a decent wing man in your area or splash $150 on getting a dating coach it's worth it, worked for me.

Peace