So, the topic, and the point of this to see what made you all choose this life. What finally drove you over the edge? What made you look into the mirror and choose to make a change?

For me...

Her name was Kayleigh. She was a gorgeous blonde, with huge boobs and a solid body, a perfect 10. I was always a huge nice guy, though I was always social, chivalrous, and I never had a problem approaching women, but I had a group of people who disliked me, and for some reason or another, thought I was a player.

In reality, I simply just made unsuccessful approaches with too many girls, girls this group knew.

I got a job as a magician at a local club, and I was an instant sensation. I had women surrounding me all the time, and a girl named Jen grabbed my interest. She was only a 7, but, at the time, I was interested. I got her number, hung out at her place the next night, got a lousy kiss and that was it. The following week, Jen brought Kayleigh to the club, and even though Kayleigh was prettier, I still found myself trying to get Jen's attention. Jen fell for this guy, a friend of mine, names Jerry. I was pissed, and then Jen came up to me and said "Your really not my type, but we can still be friends (this would be the last time I'd ever hear these words from ANY women), oh, and Kayleigh thinks your cute". I didn't care.

I went and sat in the VIP room, and Kayleigh walked in a sat on my lap. After a short convo, we made out, exchanged numbers, and agreed to see each other the next day.

I called her later that evening (yep), and discovered her crazy ex boyfriend was part of my opposing group. He explained to her that I just wanted to sleep her, and that I was a player.

I decided to show them once and for all that I wasn't a player, that I was an awesome nice guy all along, and that they were mistaken.

Kayleigh would always initiate sexually charged conversations. She would make it possible, but I never saw it. When I look back, I can practically see the runway lights between her legs. But I didn't see that. I wanted a relationship.

Kayleigh ended up hanging out with my friend and Fucking him that night. I was furious. Not that she slept with him, but that I didn't take action. That I didn't kjust take what I wanted, and that I wanted to learn to stop making mistakes.

I've since become an accomplished gamer.

So what's your story?

Simply tired of the nasty relationships I've been in. More so, just ONE relationship. It was enough to tell me that "You need to get off your ass and get this part of your life in CHECK". Its something that we are all born with, and I suck at it, and it just burns a hole inside me. Not to fuck many girls, but the ability to filter through trashy girls and find a gem, thats important to me.

I don't even remember.

I do recall I was the definition of AFC and then somehow I stumbled on some of David Deangelo's work.

I was just an awkward, decent looking, introverted guy.

PUA, to me, is more about improving my overall lifestyle rather than actually picking up girls.

I've changed so much since I started getting into this. I've made so much progress and I'm alot more friendly, clever and outgoing now. And of course, the girls came as a result of this.

my friends always look at me as if i was a natural cause id occassionally get a few number/kiss closes in one night. i loved the way that i now had a reputation as a "smooth guy ". i wanted more which led me to david deangelo.

after my first serious relationship turning to shit and then struggling in the field i turnt to pua and never looked back.

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Seize the day

QFT. or so I would have said a month ago.

Now I feel I got into PU for validation, I know this bc I now feel validated as though I am respected, I know I can get girls. very attractive ones

Now that I know this and am validated I am lost on what to do. I feel like I've accomplished a goal and idk what to do anymore.

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Inner game is the core, outer game is just an expression of it

That's a pretty epic story you got there.

I got into pua through the game. I started out with seduction tips when pua was unknown to me. A website recommended to read the definitive book of bodylanguage and so I did. When looking for it I decided to order 2 others with it and one of them was the game.

What made me decide to do something about it was never having had a girlfriend before because I honoustly didn't really care as I spend most of my time playing videogames and sports. It's not that I was that horrible with girls, but I was horrible with girls I didn't already know (approach anxiety). I didn't know many girls since my friends are total AFCs and the ones I did know where either unattractive for me, unattracted to me or I was being a retard and wasted my shot which has happened alot. I guess I'm just REALLY picky.

So eventhough I'm still kinda looking for that perfect girlfriend, I'm trying to enjoy my road towards mPUA-dom.

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Optimistic?

More pussy is never a bad idea

Got tooled, got depressed, got an action plan. Boom, I'm here. I don't remember much besides that.

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Don't hate, just dominate.

I thought it was a good RPG game. You know collecting all those spells (AKA negs, DHV stories) and then throwing them on those bitches to gain XP.

lol jk

I got really bored with getting played, being a nice guy and going nowhere. I decided I needed to do something about it, whatever it would take. Together with the knowledge I got a better life style, I joined a gym, I got better clothes, I recovered my self steem and it's all good.

Ultimately failing in my pursuit of a girl for a year and losing her to a 53 year old redneck.

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Only one thing could cure this: Dance Music.

I was a natural PUA, had lots of confidence funny guy had many girls didnt knew at the time i was doing negs, and push pul and disqualifersl, C&F ,but shit happened I had some serious problems that affected my confidence for 5 years, i didnt knew if my problem(and no my problem wasnt sexual lol) was fixable or not so i turn my back to girls, and almost to the world start playing videogames and shit and be the guy who likes to stay at home i became the bottom of the AFC,

I didnt care if womens were alive i cared but i was so afraid of my problem that I prefer to had some distance, i didnt want any relationship period, so i got too much "NICE GUY and not sexual vibe". Then I met a girl i fell in love with her but since i was so afraid of my "problem" I wouldnt dare to hit on her, and she started dating a friend of mine I was pissed then found a way to fix my problem .Later a friend of mine introduced me to the Mystery Show and i was blown away, was the best thing to recover from my 5 stupid years. 3 months later i got a HB girlfriend using MM at club and loved the results after that I almost stopped read some stuffs but didnt take too seriously winged a bit for a friend but not much ,because i was in seriously relantioship, after we broke up I dive much more deeper in the PUA thing.

Im no PUA yet but studying to become one l, try and joining a bit of three worlds MM with 60y and gambler but with college and everthing becomes hard.

I started Pua because i wanted to learn how to manipulate people. 5 years before that i picked up my first book on black magic and necromancy and after doing extensive reading on psychology i found pua material to give good insight on how people operate. The picking up girls part of it is more of a bonus for me. I guess it might come in handy if any of my spells require a sacrifice to be cast.

Na im just kidding. I started PU because i'm all about self improvement. and the PUA community has tons of resources for this. It's a great community

Want to be more in controll of the women I date.

I've never had trouble finding girlfriends but I always finding myself go for the first decent girl I find. I need more choice, when I do settle down I want it to be with the right person for me, someone who fits with me completely.

I think becoming a PUA will be able to achieve that for me, along with some extra experience with other girls along the way.

But where does the afc/natural wanting to become a pua start?