Dated / was sleeping with this girl for about 3 months. Things were going well and she seemed REALLY into me. But the past 3 weeks (almost a month) shes been blowing me off. Shes in school, so she is busy, but never so busy to blow me off the three times I asked her out and barely talk to me / only respond to half my texts. Hadn't heard from her in a week so I texted her and said:

me: hey are you still alive?
Her: barely...
Me: aw give me a call when you get a minute

No call back. Shes never online anymore so I'd guess she's blocking me or something, but still responds to texts mostly. Odd since I never IMed her, shed always IM me.

1) should I call her out on being so aloof? How do you recommend doing so?

2) vin do Carlo in no flakes recommended calling and leaving a voicemail along the lines of "Hi HB, somethings come up, call me back" and then asking them to be honest in what their deal is. Has anyone tried this or would you recommend it?

I've already moved on and am dating another girl, but I want to know if she is still an option or if I can reattract. It seems she's just not so into me but I'm not sure.

Would a text like this be a good idea?

Gonna be blunt, you've got really distant lately. Is everything ok or should I just move on?

Are you likely to bump into this girl again?

I would just cut all phone/IM/text contact off, you are seeing another one anyway and you already had sex with this one for three months! so there's still connection I would definitely bet she's totally hating your flood of IM's and texts. But this is way beyond the PUA topic since you've been having sex with her for 3 months, has nothing to do with PUA anymore. You might be hurting her feelings with your behavior etc... go to the LTR part of the forum.

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Might bump into her again. I frequent the part of town she lives in...

A text a week to see what shes up to would be considered a flurry? I'm confused to how asking her to do something via text could hurt her feelings, but maybe I have come off to strong.

Haven't IMed her, she hasn't been online / might be blocking me. My contact with her has been minimal.

Think I might cut off contact until this weekend an then maybe see if she wants to do something? Not sure I that's too much at this point...

Wish I had enough posts to post in the LTR section. More incentive to answer others questions

I know this situation very well lol. Here's what I think: She's been dating some other dude and while she likes him over you (most likely because she's ready for the next step and you are not) She doesn't want to shut you completely out but she doesn't really want to talk to you. After the thing with the other dude doesn't work out she'll be calling you back. So just cut off contact for good until she texts you.

Yeah I meant the content of the texts or the content of your encounters might have hurt her feelings, not the amount of texts. But it's complicated bro, it's impossible for you to explain the 3 month encounters on the forum, and if you did it would be impossible for us to read. There's no universal PUA answer that applies to your case. She might event want you to call more or show up and be extremely pushy. She might be playing you and waiting for you to fall, or she might be seeing someone else etc.. there are many posibilities so any advice given based on the original post is basically a shot in the dark.

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