Fucking hell I'm having so much success with women at the moment and the one I really want is fucking my head up. I told her I liked her and she said she likes me. Now tonight she said she isn't sure what she wants so I said let’s just leave it then. I said that at the time because I was so pissed of hearing that, we’ve been getting along so well etc... And then she had the cheek to say you’re not getting away that easy we still talk yes? She can fuck right off. Guys I really like this one it’s so frustrating when she said she likes me now this. Why is it that the thing we want the most we never get. Advice here would be so helpful!!

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The Edge... there is no honest way to explain it because the only people who really know where it is are the ones who have gone over.

This is when you shot yourself on the foot. The sexual tension fizzled out and she realized that you have been tamed. She lost interest in you instantly.
When a girl gets this needy and clingy vibe, then almost always she will run.

Now the solution.

Well, you might just have to start all over again. Stop all kinds of contact(text, phone, IM) for a week or so and then meet up and try building that attraction and sexual tension. And always stay a challenge and make her work for your attention. The comfort is already there so you just need to spice it up with gradual kino and that sexual vibe. Now if she calls you first(during that 7 days period) then you know that this strategy is working for you even better.

Good Luck.

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But i haven't been needy or clingy she even said that she hates it when i don't talk to her, It makes me want to talk to you even more. I'll do what you said tho give her some space! but not to sound cocky i know she will speak to me if i don't say anything to her for a day or two. So what then what if she does speak to me i can't ignor her she hasn't been nasty or anything to me she's been nothing but nice.

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The Edge... there is no honest way to explain it because the only people who really know where it is are the ones who have gone over.

If she calls up and wants to meet then definitely go out with her but remember to do what I said in the previous post. Keep escalating no matter how awkward or uneasy it feels. If you just want to play safe then you are in danger of being Friend Zoned big time.

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We mostly talk through text and facebook and meet up like every other week on a night out etc.. so anyway i can do this online ? would be a huge help because we talk a whole lot would ignoring her help ??

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The Edge... there is no honest way to explain it because the only people who really know where it is are the ones who have gone over.

If you know this girl likes you then hands down the best way to get her is to make her jealous by getting with another girl. And then once she realises your "in demand" so to speak, she'll come running your way.

saro has the the mouth full of cum of truth, if she really likes you make her jealous.

Now, dont believe that guy who said if you say "i like you" you fucked all it up, actually telling "i like you" saves you alot of time, if she really likes you she will come, but if she doesnt then you win bro, you will not spend more time and money with a girl that will never be your GF anyways, maybe she was just playing with you to see what kind of crap you can buy to her but in reward you will see no pussie.

Start meeting new girls, next next next, to found a better girl dont accept to be boyfriend with a girl that is uglier and isnt cool as the previous one, always go UP and eventually you will find a girl that matches almost all your ideals

The attraction is not THAT strong for her since the beginning. This has not changed.
You tried to have a short cut and it worked against you.
The key is to make her FEEL.
My advice is cut off contact suddenly. No logic reason to rationalise!
This way she will start constantly thinking WHY you left. What happened?
Also removing yourself will put her off the pedestal you have now put her.
Her disappointment that you left will create some feelings thus increasing the attraction.
When you return back start from scratch. Keep in mind that she will be a bit upset and you should be stronger than the beginning. Be careful not to turn into an asshole. Asshole is not good. We have female friends that will tell us off if we date an asshole and "bring us back to our senses".

Have you fucked her yet? It doesn't sound like you have, maybe you've taken too long... A lot of the time girls get put off if you don't make your move soon enough. Don't fuck about ignoring her and not texting her, that's just going to piss her off and she'll probably end up fucking another guy who won't fuck about... If you haven't fucked her yet, just be persistant, get her to meet you and close.

1. i know what you mean, women are so.. primitive... i know guys can be also,, but women are just so, instint driven... i know guys are too, but i think girls are much more instint driven then guys are... at least when it comes to male female interactions, and relashionships. what makes me mad, is women have the nerve to try and say that we are more primitive., when it seems to be they, that are limited.

2 you broke what seems to be a major rule... never let a girl know you like her, keep that push and pull going...

3. you know the rules, dont let a girl know you like her, tell her with a kiss.

4. that fact that telling a girl you like her, and it setting off a psycological trigger, that makes her pull away is disturbing to me,, i share your dissapointment with women,, to some extend at least... i feel this is beyond the scope of mens instints,, hence my SPAM that women are more primitive.
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5. standerd stuff buddy,, ignore her,make her miss your attention , make her chase you... tigger her need to chase.

6. after she starts to chase you,, do some kino... some take aways,, push and pull.... small neg perhaps?.... na,, nix the neg, unless you really need it.

7. escalate , esca;ate , escalate.. start slow with kino,, and work your way up.... who cares if she gets mad, or rejects yout advances,,, shes just a girl,,a slave to her emotions.

8. keep esalating,, all the way up to kissing,, then sex.... if she wont go along,, back off, try agian... do a freaze out,, if it wont work.. dump her,, find a better girl.

9. at this point... once you get her attention back,, its all or nothing.... "make the ho say no"... keep pushing,, untill she says no,, then back off a little,, then try agian...

10. its all or nothing... once she starts to chase you.. go for rich, or get broke trying... keep pushing... slowly,, and not in a needy way of course.

Your problem is inner game. You lost it when you couldn't keep it together, not when you told her that you liked her. Women by nature aren't emotionally stable... Thats your job. She needs to know that even if she can't figure it out, you've got it figured out.

But together you need to be more sure of yourself and not so hot tempered. If you can't handle that, then I promise you, wouldn't be able to handle a relationship with this girl.

-Less game, more growth.

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GFTOW. Stop the contact for a month or more, go out , go with other girls/women.
She will eventually come back, by then you might not want here cause you will already be over her

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