So I'm dating this HB7. We have hanged out 3 times, and every time we talk a lot about sexual stuff even through texting. First day we kissed for half an hour. Second day one hour and some chest, but she didn't come to my place. Third day, she said she was having friends coming over and cooking. We went to the beach before that, held hands and she didnt let me kiss her.

Rest of the night, the same and she sleeps in my arms watching the movie with her friends. So I don't know if it's because she's seeing someone else, or if she thinks I only want her for sex as I tease her a lot about sexual things and we laugh. She also plays with what I say.

Example: She asked me where my calming place is. I heard it as cumming place, so I said my bed... she asks if there's any other place. me: Your bed?
She says I'm curled up in bed with the heater on. Me: You could do some serious damage to yourself.

Any advice would be appreciated.

I haven't called her in 2 days after that night, since I didnt enjoy what she did. Should I give her a call or wait for her?

For me I make sure sexually talk is involved. I see it as a good thing. I've caulked base boards at my place and asked women to come over if they think they can handle the caulk. It's usually done in humor but it keeps me very far from the friend zone.

If your dating her then kissing should be a certainty. If shes not letting you, and you have in the past. Go caveman and take it at a solid time. A lot of women really want the guy to aggresivly take them. The more you put it of, the more likely you'll be the guy that she flirts with that nothing will ever happen with.

If you mention sex, like you have in the past and she is fine with the chat or amused, you have already placed the idea of sex with you in her head. Her being around you is the sign that she is not threatened by sexual advances from you.

thanks for your comments. Yeah, she's definitely not threatened by my sexual advances. I just thought that the whole sexual talk and kino might put her in a defensive style in having sex with me. She's telling me she wants to know someone first and then have sex, and I'm not used to this type of crap hehe.

One more question, I haven't contacted her after that dinner night with her friends at her place. Is it my responsibility to call? I mean we've known each other for a while now, so I'd rather want her to call or txt me first... pushing her to chase me, but if she doesn't, would you just move on or would you call her?

Btw, caulk, brilliant idea...

all that overtly sexual talk works against you...whenever a chick i`m dating is overtly talking about sex to me, 9 times out of 10 we aren`t fucking that night. like the old saying goes: "talkers never do, doers never talk"...as far as calling the chick...its a little too late for that. a lot of guys make the mistake of "courting" a chick into being a fuck buddy. bad logic. if you can`t fuck her in 4 days. let her go.

These are pretty opposite views. I'd appreciate if the other PUAs comment on the sexual talk.

I ended up calling her today, she was quite friendly, she invited me to go to a movie with her and her friend, which I rejected. I'd rather have her alone. I asked to see her after the movie and she says she's busy. Then she said you don't have to ask me, I'll let you know when I'm not busy (last week she also told me she was free on Wednesday and set up that dinner). I get the feeling I need to move on.