Hey guys, this is my first post, because I need help, and my friends are more CB'ing then actually offering real help..

I met a girl on halloween, a crazy night where we left the club as a group, went to a house party, left with the same girl in a smaller group, and eventually she went home alone that night. We kept in touch texting (BBM), and the next day got an add from her on facebook. I've seen her twice since, once through a friend, and once randomly at a club.. I was avoiding her last time I saw her because she isn't being as forward as I want, but she keeps texting one of my friends asking why i was avoiding her, and asking questions about me.. I need help, and need to close this.. not even looking for a one night stand, but to get a good relationship with this girl..

any advice is much appreciated